Post # 1
Have mercy! So tonight teh Fiance and I are out on a nice little drive mid conversation he is like “Oh did I tell you (insert she devils name here) messaged me?”
Me: “Nope, what’d she say?”
Fiance: “She sent ‘Lookin good stud ;)’, ‘Saw that bright red car and just knew it was you’ ‘I’m in town for a few weeks'”
As I’m sure most women know “mmm” is not the best sound for a woman to make. It wasn’t an omg chocolate cake mmm, it was a short grumble. This girl is the one he dated for 3 years in college that was sleeping with her male roommate and another fellow while dating my Fiance and when I confronted her (he was my best friend) she smacked me. That’s right, that hussy smacked me. She is lucky I am a peace loving woman or she would have been thrown out the window. In my rage I just said I’m telling Joe (my FI). I love how I’m telling! is a valid threat lol. Long story short they then broke up. Since then she has always been butting in and it annoys the ever lovin pee out of me. Fi is pleasant to her because he’s not the type to be mean but we go back and forth on whether she is trying to get back with him. (She is). She will call and say she doesn’t have anything to eat when she’s in town visiting her parents and ask him to come eat dinner with her, ask him to go to auctions etc. He declines of course but once or twice they have hung out and I was pretty okay with it…. in that I didn’t go insane. SHE KNOWS WE ARE ENGAGED! So in my rant here I kind of want to kick her in the shin for messaging that he “looks good” and being all cute about his car when she cheated on him while complaining that he didn’t have a nice car and never bought her things. Of course she likes him now, he has a great job and a brand new car. I wont, but I want to shake the s**t out of her.
Anyone with FI’s with ex’s you want to shake?
Post # 3
Ew! She sounds gross. I think your Fiance needs to be the one to tell her to bugger off, though, not you.
Bye the way, “As I’m sure most women know “mmm” is not the best sound for a woman to make. It wasn’t an omg chocolate cake mmm, it was a short grumble.” made me lol!
Post # 4
@Bram: Not his ex so much as a friend of his who think he belongs to her somehow… even though she’s married! My Fiance and her husband worked together at a company where my Fiance was manager. He ended up hiring her and then she married his best friend. The three of them were really tight and my Fiance dated a few of her close friends. Then I came along. She got really possessive of him. It was weird. And when I would post pics of us on FB, she’d comment with things like, “Such a hott guy! I’d do him!” Um, hello, inappropriate?! Anyway, she was always giving me subtle digs and insults. Some my Fiance picked up on, some he didn’t, but while she and I were making nice on the surface of things, we had a lot of unresolved issues because of her attitude. Eventually, I confronted her, and she claimed that I better not try to push her out of my FI’s life because (according to her) “He dates who I say and breaks up with anyone I don’t like!” Well, he proved her wrong by sticking with me and stopping all contact with her, haha. She and I didn’t speak for a few months and then the guys basically begged us to make up so everyone could hang out again without it being awkward. She never apologized for her behavior, I never excused it, we just kind of decided to pretend like nothing happened. I still don’t like her but for the sake of FI’s bestie, I tolerate her and play nice. Ugh. Crazy women!
Post # 5
You seem to have a lot of crazies in your life haha. (No offence meant!)
I’d smack her.
Also, I like how the only choice in your poll is “Shake Her!”
Post # 6
Ugh, chicks like this make me glad I married a man whore with no previous real girlfriends…
Post # 7
@Juliepants: That part made me laugh too. Hahaha.
Eh, luckily FI’s ex knows better to fuck with us. Excuse my french. FMIL did run into her though at the store she’s working at. She told his ex everything about us. Great job (which was true at the time), engaged, etc. I kind of felt weird about it and Fiance wasn’t too thrilled that his mom talk to her (she cheated on him with a million different guys), but at least she knows he’s happy.
Post # 8
Yea…when my fiance’s ex wife forgets to take her meds….I just want to thunder punch her in the ovaries.
Post # 9
When FH and I started dating, he’d been broken up wih his ex for six months or so. She used to text him DAILY – “wanna meet at that Chinese restaurant? My treat!” “in your neighborhood, mind of I stop by?” – he never wrote back or dignified any of it, but man was she persistent. I kind of way she had stopped by, just so I could tell her to leave 😉
Post # 10
@NCPwedding: Thunder punch… I just died laughing!
Post # 11
yeah try raising a kid with your fiance and his ex.
It sucked when she went to rehab and we had to drive his son there every week to see her. It sucked when we took her to court. It sucks seeing her face every Sunday when she comes to pick him up wearing a white tank top and no bra. It all just
I feel ya.
Post # 12
@Ellegee: yea we get it…tell her to leave = uppercut her ass! LOL
Post # 13
First the mother, now the ex. Goodness girl, I’d be handin out bitch slaps like a frat boy hands out beer at a party. As far as I’m concerned, you owe her a smack anyways!
Post # 14
@JB1127: Thats what im going through. She gets froggy when she comes over but as of right now she values her life well enough not to jump at me.
Do you know when my fiance and his ex were officially divorced she actually texted him and asked if he could still come over and cook for her?
I wanted to invite her over for an ice cold glass of bleach water. Heffa.
Post # 15
She sounds like a hosebeast.
Post # 16
Just lmao at “thunder punch”