(Closed) His ex girlfriend

posted 4 years ago in Relationships
Post # 2
322 posts
Helper bee

I’d say that since this is on her end and your Fiance seems to have done everything right, there’s not much to do. Think of it this way: if you forward everything to her current boyfriend, that may just free her up to bother you guys even more. 

It annoys the shit out of me too, and I’m with you when you say you’d never do this to another woman. Some people know no boundaries. It sounds like you and your Fiance have a very open and honest relationship though. I’d just do my best to let it go.

I’d like to point out one more thing though: if you every feel physically threatened, do tell your Fiance and do take some legal action. This woman sounds like a stalker.

Post # 3
10599 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: City, State

I think the best thing to do is for your SO to totally ignore her. Ideally, block her from any forms of contact. Seems pretty obvious to me this is an ego thing that she wants to see if she could still “get him” if that makes sense. He needs to not indulge this at all and quit responding entirely.

Also, you need to stay out of her and her BFs relationship. That’s high school drama and will only feed this more and let her know she’s under your skin. Both of you ignore and block her and she has no power. I give this advice from experience as DH came to me with his own unhealthy manipulative ex who every now and then does try to strike up a conversation. She is 100% ignored at all times.

Post # 5
2240 posts
Buzzing bee

She sounds unstable. That’s probably why your boyfriend’s relationship with her was so “fiery and intense.”

Don’t respond to her. Have your boyfriend keep a record of her attempts to contact him. Take screen-shots of the texts and incoming calls, and keep the e-mails in their own folder and/or print them out.

Post # 8
126 posts
Blushing bee

I think our fiances have the same ex girlfriend 😂I don’t have any advice other than to continue to ignore her. Eventually she’ll get the hint. It took like a year for us (this was after she was blocked on everything, she’did still try to get in contact from random numbers).

Post # 10
1158 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: March 2017

I had an ex that kept contacting me for over a year after I started dating Fiance. I tried telling him to stop and I feel like that just encourages people like them by continuing contact. So I blocked his email and flat out ignored him. He finally stopped. I think all out blocking her is probably the only way to go.

Post # 11
626 posts
Busy bee

You can actually thank her. She’s providing an opportunity for your fiance to show you more about who he is and how he handles difficult situations before marriage. I’d leave her out of it, and just appreciate that he’s shut it down.

Post # 12
1939 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: May 2016

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sallygirl89 :  while FB isn’t exactly a good temperature reader for what’s really going on in anyone’s relationship the fact it at least appears as if though she is in a serious cohabiting relationship means I think her bf deserves to know. If my DH was doing this kind of thing behind my back to his ex I would sincerely hope she would forward me everything. 

Post # 15
273 posts
Helper bee

Her boyfriend deserves to know the truth. While it’s normally not a good idea to get involved in other people’s affairs, she’s purposefully stepping on your toes.

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