Honestly Other than these little incidents & all the ones we have had with the Ex Misty trying to stir up problems, we dont have any problems. We never fight other than this & all of this aside I couldnt be happier with him
@lucytoo….I have known for a long time that he is a very sexual person & that he was into that sort of thing. Somtimes I think that because he waited for marriage he became sexually active probably alot later than most guys do & sometimes I swear I think he is a 16 year old boy, that gets a thrill out of just seeing my boobie. I guess that since he has only been with 3 other women besides me maybe he does see them as big accomplisments but I dunno.
From my understanding his wife & him were each others firsts, he said she never wanted to have sex and would cry everytime they did. So for the 4 years they were together they really didnt have a sexual relationship
He says that he is very ashamed of being with Charlie b/c it was just a moment of lonleiness during his divorce that ruined their friendship.
I know he had talked about before that Him and Misty all they really had was a sexual relationship & he thinks that & her kids is why he stayed for as long as he did. I don’t know maybe that could play a part in his wanting to keep these things I guess because in a sense she was the first person he was ever really sexual with.
I actually have let him take pictures of me in lingerie & we actually did make a video of the two of us, I only agreed if my face wasnt going to be seen so just incase in fell into the wrong hands. The DVD of it in our Safe right now. I know that he sometimes takes it out and watches it ever so often when he is alone.
Whatever the case may be I still feel it is unacceptable. I have done so much & given up so much just to make sure I was not ever going to do anything that could possibly hurt him.
I have ended frienships with guys that I had dated but was still friends with. I told soemone who was a major part of my life & that I loved that I could no longer contact him because it was not appropriate because of the feelings we have together.
I was with a man for 7 years of my life, who i was married to & have a child with & I try everything within my power to make sure I dnt do anything or say anything that could possibly upset Andy. I didnt get rid of (for my daughters sake all pictures of us, because i feell it is important for her to know that we were happy at one point) but i put them all away in storage at my mothers house. I have introduced them, I try to put them both at ease about each other.
I even let my ex have a car I had been paying on for 3 years bc It wasnt worth the hassle of it all & letting him that attachment and that hold over me.