(Closed) his ex-wife/my ex-friend? (long)

posted 8 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

let sleeping dogs lie, no reason for you to be involved. Congrats on your engagement by the way! ๐Ÿ™‚

Post # 4
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

Well, in one sense, the annulment process needs to start ASAP! I don’t think he should need her to get the ball rolling, in fact, technically the other party doesn’t even really need to be involved if necessary, i.e. they won’t return papers.

If she doesn’t return the email, her mom should know the answers.

Post # 5
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

I think Fiance should contact her directly, I don’t really feel that’s your place to be honest. ๐Ÿ™‚

Post # 6
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

I agree with @Leafy, your Fiance should contact her directly instead of having you do it for him, it’s really their business to figure it out. You made it clear talking to her caused conflict and your friendship wouldn’t continue so I think for you to contact her now would just be weird. Have him do it, and soon!

Post # 7
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Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2009

Your Fiance should handle this. My mom would’ve done the same thing, by the way…

Post # 8
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: December 1969

I agree with everyone else so far, let this stay between Fiance and his ex.  If you get involved it will only complicate things.

Post # 9
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

at this point, i say play the waiting game and see if she responds to your Fiance… no need for you to get involved at this point.

if she doesn’t reach out to you, i say talk it over with your Fiance and see how he wants to handle the next step.

Post # 11
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

I think what Leafy and Soon2beeMrsM are trying to say is it’s better to try and contact her directly not just through her mom. If you have access to her email address then your Fiance should in fact be the one to contact her directly. The relationship in question with the annulment was between them not the two of you. If I were on the other end I would in fact be offended and feel like you were contacting me because you wanted something if it was you trying to reach me instead of him but that’s just my opinion.

Post # 12
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

Thanks for clearning that up Cricket, you were spot on. ๐Ÿ™‚

Post # 13
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: December 2010

Agreed.  I think it is best for you to take a back seat on this.  Information for annulment paperwork is no one’s issues but the ex husband and ex wife.  Not the new wife, the old friend or the old mother in law.   I would encourage Fiance to contact her and is it doesn’t work—then I guess you’ll have to move forward without Liz’s help.  

And, as a side note–although it’s an atypical way to meet, I think your story is sweet. ๐Ÿ™‚

Post # 14
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

I also agree with Cricket. It would be best if he contact her directly. While it is completely understandable that you want to get the ball rolling, this is between him and her.

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