(Closed) his family can't stand me!

posted 6 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: April 2013

@peachesxo:  *HUGS* I don’t have any advice, but I’m so sorry that they’re putting you through something so terrible.  It’s especially hard since they don’t have a reason and are treating you like a scapegoat.  I think you just have to rest assured that you and your Fiance are on the same page.  Hopefully things will get better for you two, best of luck!

Post # 4
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

First of all, I’m sorry you have to deal with this.  I do not have any advice to give because I’ve never been in this type of situation.  You are their grandchildren’s MOTHER and should be treated as such.  You are apart of the family whether they like it or not and they need to learn to accept it.  They don’t like you, that is their choice.  They should still treat you like a human being and show you respect.  They will realize one day when none of you (you, FH, your children) are no longer in their lives.  It’s just sad.

Post # 5
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Newbee
  • Wedding: April 2013

omg that is horrible! ((huggs)). Would they ever consider sitting down with you to talk? You could even go as far as counseling with them that way there is someone who is not bias talking to you. My sister in law cut her family out of her life and she is a lot happier because of it. My brother and her had a lot of issues with her mom and sister causing issues.

Post # 6
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

As hard as it would be, why not ask directly why they are treating you this way? 

Post # 7
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2014

@HappySky7:  Yes, I agree… or get your Fiance to say something to them

Post # 8
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: April 2013

Maybe it’s because you had kids together before getting married. Idk but you are all “nothing has changed” when in fact having kids is a really huge change, and idk if that goes against their beliefs or if they think you were trying to “trap” him by having kids or whatever. Dumb, but they could easily be thoughts people have.

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