(Closed) His timing…

posted 6 years ago in Intimacy
  • poll: How long does your FI last, not including foreplay.
    0-5 minutes : (21 votes)
    18 %
    5-10 minutes : (21 votes)
    18 %
    10-15 minutes : (29 votes)
    25 %
    15 minutes or longer : (43 votes)
    38 %
  • Post # 3
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    5107 posts
    Bee Keeper

    @Purpleblonde:  wow, interesting results in the poll. Darling Husband can make it last but we usually don’t- we are TTC so sex can get exhausting. 

    Post # 4
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    5107 posts
    Bee Keeper

    What would be an interesting poll is “how long does he last and are you dating, engaged or married.” Lol!!!!

    Post # 5
    Member
    996 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: July 2011

    Wow! Totally surprised at the poll results… :O

     

    Post # 7
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    4047 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: January 2014

    A long time. I won’t get into specifics. But if I haven’t “finished” then he’ll do his best to hold off until I do – change the position, the depth, the speed, etc. so that he doesn’t get too stimulated. He also doesn’t get much stimulation during foreplay in order to ensure he lasts a long time after.

    I’m happy with it!

    With that said, he’s in the first category if it’s our first time after not seeing each other for months (damn you long distance). Ha. And it doesn’t bother me one bit. I enjoy it either way.

    Post # 8
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    4656 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: August 2013

    Probably right around 10 minutes if I don’t count any foreplay, since foreplay is often long, but I’m very sensitive and am generally done way before him… more than 15 minutes is mind-boggling to me, I think I’d have bruises! (Unless we’re deliberately going slow which is also fun sometimes but tends to mix foreplay in so I have no idea about timing)

    Post # 9
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    621 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: May 2013

    It depends. He can last anywhere between 2 minutes – 30+ minutes depending on the situation we’re in! 

    Post # 10
    Member
    6355 posts
    Bee Keeper

    It depends, but usually quite a while. He usually tries and is able to wait for me to finish first.

    My impression is that this is uncommon, though I haven’t had a wide “sampling” (4). He is one of two I know of who tend to last a long time. Another 2 were usually quick finishers in the first round (one of them lighting-fast), but did better 20 mins later.

    Post # 11
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    1765 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: September 2012

    I’m not sure exacty, although it’s pretty long. He usually makes sure I’m all set before he finishes so he’s pretty good at timing it. But we also usually do it more than once each time.

    Post # 12
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    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: July 2012 - Catholic Church

    I’m really surprised at the results. Darling Husband almost always lasts more than a half hour and more than an hour and a half is definitely not unheard of (I do tend ot be a little tired by then though). If he goes sooner than 20 minutes he often feels embarrassed. He’s the only man I’ve ever been with, so I thought that was pretty normal. I’ll have to tell him he has no reason to be embarrassed and show him this poll because I can’t seem to convince him otherwise.

    Post # 13
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    9116 posts
    Buzzing Beekeeper
    • Wedding: December 2012

    It really depends for us. If we’re having sex regularly, he’ll last 15+ minutes.

    If he’s gone on deployment [The only reason we’re not having sex on a daily basis], when he comes home, for the first week or so he’ll be a minute man.

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