His Weekend Bachelor with girls!

posted 3 years ago in Destination Weddings
Post # 16
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2014

atalibrandi :  have you communicated to your fiancé that you would like to attend? What was his response?

Post # 17
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Helper bee

Imo, if there are women at his bachelor party, then it’s really a bachelor/bachelorette party combo and I’m there. Period. My Fiance would never do this. Have multiple women at his bachelor party and only exclude me? No way. If he wants a guys’ night, he can have that, but never cool to try to exclude me when other women are there and especially not okay to be arguing about excluding me when I point out that it’s messed up or that I don’t like it and it’d make me feel bad.

Post # 18
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2017

atalibrandi :  I agree, plus you would be literally the only girl NOT going to the bachelors party lol, that’s even more weird! 

Post # 19
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2017

what if you all went to key west but then at night, when Fiance goes to strip clubs/ does “men” things, you go out with the girls for a night out or whatever. If I was a straight female attending the wedding,  I don’t think I would be wanting to go to strip clubs and stuff anyways lol, that’s just weird, especially with my family or significant other. 

Post # 21
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Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2015

atalibrandi :  im side eyeing your Fiance a little bit here for even suggesting this and leaving you out. That’s not the kind of behavior that screams “yes, I’m going to be a great husband and I’m ready to get married!” 

I hope this is just a blip and he sees the error of his ways.

Post # 22
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Helper bee

I’m kind of with your Fiance on this. It seems inappropriate to have people travel internationally then split them up once they get there. This is a holiday for both of them. If it was one night out I’d be cool with it, but I would be seriously unhappy about my partner spending an entire weekend of OUR vacation somewhere that I wasn’t invited to. I guess the ladies could stay and explore Miami, but if we were spending vacation days and lots of money on this trip, I wouldn’t want to spend a big chunk of it alone. So I don’t think it’s reasonable for them tnot to be invited. Either alter the plans to have an in town bachelor evening with just the guys, or accept that the girls need to be invited for the weekend long plans. Of course I also think it’s perfectly reasonable for you to go on the weekend trip to, I can see why you’d feel left out.

Post # 23
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Bumble Beekeeper

atalibrandi :  

Hmm, he seems to have an odd idea of what a  bachelor party is…I mean  , if it’s mixed, no  probs.  It  might not be traditional but nothing wrong with that. But a bachelor party does NOT mean everyone except the bride!

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