(Closed) Hitting a rut…need advice.

posted 8 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
1238 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: March 2013

@rubybride718:  I dont really have specific advice apart from taking time to spend just the 2 of you.  Get a babysitter & go out for dinner or takeout & eat it by yourselves somewhere. From experience with my Fiance, most guys do get over things quicker then we do, if he says he is fine he probably is, dont dwell on it or keep asking if things are wrong as you have had a bad week but it doesnt have to keep going that way. 

Post # 4
484 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

Make him an offer he can’t refuse…. maybe take him to a ball game?  It doesn’t have to be a grand gesture.  My husband never says no to a late-night trip for ice cream or a hot dog.  So much fun, and a nice memory even for your 5-yr-old.  (I remember late night ice cream trips with my dad were the BEST!  He pretended it was this big secret from my mom.)  

It’s the little things that make you feel close.  A head on his shoulder, an unexpected kiss on the hand, a cute text that doesn’t necessarily require a response.  I agree with traveller, he’s probably fine with how things are, and if you want to feel a little closer, well, it’s up to you!

Post # 5
174 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

As my mother would say ” this too shall pass”.

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