(Closed) Hive Confessions

posted 6 years ago in Weddingbee
Post # 4
Member
290 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

I am obsessed with the “Dress” board!!

But same thing- long posts I usually scroll past and look straight for the pics! πŸ™‚

Post # 5
Member
642 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

I’m guilty of reading posts but not replying to them, most of the time I’m either just disgusted with the attitude of the poster or I think that they are just being rediculous, so like my Mama always said “can’t say anything nice? Don’t say anything at all.”

Post # 6
Member
5977 posts
Bee Keeper

@Mrs.Goguen:  I have the exact same confession. I usually will start typing out a response to the poster, then start to re-read it and delete it completely and click out of the post. It’s basically me telling myself not to stir the pot!

Post # 8
Member
3773 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: December 1999

@Mrs.Goguen:  I don’t respond a lot either. Sometimes you can tell why the person has drama in their lives just by the attitude they have in their posts.

I’ll admit that it really does hurt my feeling when I make a point and then someone says the same thing and everyone is look “good point” to the other person or when people respond to every other posts but mine. It brings back cliquey high school feelings and I feel lame that an internet forum would make me feel like that.

Post # 8
Hostess
16213 posts
Honey Beekeeper

@2PeasinaPod:  @Mrs.Goguen:  That’s a great attitude, though. I try to click away from a thread if I know it’s a topic that gets me especially emotional or wound up. πŸ˜‰

@knvprincess143:  To answer your original question, I’m much more likely to give a lot of feedback on, for example, a dress post if the photos in question are actually in the post, and not just links to the dress on a different website. I guess I’m lazy. πŸ™‚

Post # 9
Hostess
16213 posts
Honey Beekeeper

@ieatunicorns:  Oh no! Please don’t let it make you feel bad! I know it can definitely be hard to reply to everyone on every thread. I try really hard to reply to people when I start a thread, but sometimes it can get overwhelming. We definitely value your opinion! πŸ™‚

Post # 10
Member
3773 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: December 1999

@Gemstone:  I rarely follow links either:)

Post # 11
Member
5475 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: August 2012

I confess that I roll my eyes everytime I see a post asking if it’s ok to fire a bridesmaid.  I think during wedding planning some people completely forget that they are supposed to be someone’s friend and they have their “bride” crown on a little too tight. 

 

Post # 12
Member
4693 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

@ieatunicorns:  Haha it drives me crazy when I post and then someone else posts the exact same thing that I did.  It makes me feel invisible and annoyed that they didn’t read the other posts before responding!

@2PeasinaPod:  I do this too.  Sometimes I want to speak my mind but drama is just exhausting and not worth it!

Post # 12
Member
642 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

@ieatunicorns:  I know how you feel sometimes, I’ve learned to not let it get to me, everyone always has a great opinion to give so I don’t mind getting lost in the thread sometimes.  

Post # 12
Member
2725 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: November 2011

If there’s links to photos with a poll I don’t vote or click the links. Too much work Laughing

Post # 13
Member
2731 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: March 2014

@knvprincess143:  I do the EXACT. SAME. THING. Haha.

I’m also guilty of not reading through other bees’ responses before I post my 2 cents, and then I end up repeating what has already been said. 

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