(Closed) Hive I need your help: Ask a friend of mine or ask one his sisters?

posted 7 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

i don’t think you can ask just one of them – i would ask all three and have an uneven wedding party.

Post # 4
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Honey bee

@loveknows: I would ask all the sisters or none of them. I think it would just create drama to ask only 1

Post # 5
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Helper bee

Well, I wouldn’t like it if my boyfriend picked only one of my brothers and not the other. Wouldn’t want him to think we like the other more.. so I agree with PP’s all of them or none at all!  

Then again, what kind of relationship do you have with the three sisters? Are you close to all of them? 

Post # 6
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

If you want to go with a sibling included, maybe you could tell them that while you would like to have them all up there, you want to keep the wedding party small, so you are you going to have one sister represent the family. You could pick a name out of a hat or let them pick among themselves.

Post # 7
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2011

@Miss Marbles: Same question as her.

I think if you have close relationships with them, then ask them. If not, I don’t think they would feel offended if they weren’t asked.

Plus, they have a wedding right before, so it might be a bit of a financial stress to have to buy more bm dresses. 

Post # 10
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Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2011

Either ask all or none for being BM’s.  If none maybe incorporate them somewhere else in your wedding

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