(Closed) Hmm boobs or no boobs?

posted 11 years ago in Wellness
Post # 77
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139 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: July 2010

Oh yeah, that was one thing she complained about. she “Paid $7500 for her boobs to be the size she wanted so WTH are they growing?!” when it came to being pregnant. Of course she got over it, since they’re shrinking back to what she paid for hehe.

Post # 78
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7769 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: July 2010

I have HUGE natural boobs, and everyone looks at them, even though I dress very conservatively.  I have the hardest time finding comfortable bras, sleeping, fitting into DRESSES!  When I walk, gross and disgusting men look at me, although I try to walk very very smoothly and gracefully.  I am happy that I am who I am, and I think everyone should try to be.  There are positives and negatives to anything.  Some men like them large, some like them small, but good men like you for who you are. To be honest, the men I know like them natural.  I think there are better ways to feel good about yourself.  I can’t imagine being able to walk around without a bra on, or jog without being strapped in, or ride comfortably on a bumpy road.  And really- it is just not fun to have people looking at your breasts when you don’t want them to.  Where I am from and have lived- it is not at all common to get plastic surgery- remember- there is a whole world out there! 

Post # 79
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2825 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: April 2012

If I had the money I would totally do it…  I feel that my boobs are small for my frame and have always wanted them to be just a little bigger.  Right now they are a large B/small C depending on the bra.  But I’m 5’4″ and rather…. wide?  I’m a size 10 in women’s, so in relation to my hips (which people always joke are “child bearing hips”) I feel my boobs are small, I feel bigger boobs would balance out my frame.

HOWEVER, Jason DESPISES fake boobs.  And he’s a boob guy!  So he wouln’t like if I got fake ones.  So for me, I wear chicken cutlets if we’re going out, he laughs about it but knows it makes me feel better so it’s our compromise. 🙂

Maybe you could wear chicken cutlets?  I have the ones from Victoria’s Secret (from ebay for half the price!)  Just an idea.  I’ll definitely be wearing chicken cutlets on my wedding day (whenever that is)

Ultimately the decision is yours.  I’ve seen really good boob jobs, I’ve seen really bad boob jobs.  If your comfortable with the idea of getting them and your Fiance is on board (HAS he felt fake boobs?) then I say go for it.  But I would try out chicken cutlets for a while, see how you like it on an everyday basis.

Post # 80
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2186 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

this might be moot – but for what its worth another perspective from someone who has boobs.

I am a 32GG. thats right GG. Back when i first started growing as a young girl, i was a 34C and over the years they just keep growing. They are still growing and im 29! i can only buy bras online. they are heavy and make everything cute that i want to wear either look like im a porn star, or wearing a muumuu. I have severe back problems, and im hugely self concious about how i look around me (i work in a male dominated career). Its hard to work out too (physically hurts). I get sick of the cat calling and the looks i get and really hate it when men (and WOMEN!)dont look me in the eye when talking to them. In the past i have cried myeslf to sleep over some of the problems caused by my stupid stupid boobs. I pray that someday i can afford a breast REDUCTION to ease the pain. (darn insurance company wont pay yet)

While im all for having breast implants if it helps your self esteem (i have a friend who went from pretty much flat (AA) to a full B and looks great) i would caution on going too big because since you were so small before, theres not a whole lot of skin to warrant a D, and it can make them super hard, even if the implant itself is “natural feeling” because the skin pulls so.

And if you are in your 20s you will need to have it done again in your 40s.

Grass isnt always greener on the other side. good luck either way.

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