(Closed) Hmm Dilemma.. Need some help

posted 7 years ago in Logistics
Post # 3
338 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

I didn’t/won’t be having a small wedding, but from what I’ve read around the web, some brides have a small ceremony, followed by a nice dinner at a restuarant hosted by the couple or the parents, then call it a night. I’ve seen it both formal and casual.

My fiance is the same as yours: “as long as we are married at the end of the day, then I’ll be happy”. So sweet but frustrating when I’m indecisive! 😛

Post # 4
396 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: April 2013

When my fiance and I were researching venues, we came across quite a few that offered “elopment” packages for weddings of fewer than 25 or 20 guests.  They were abbreviated versions of their wedding packages and were considerably cheaper.  Maybe there are a few places in your area that offer those?

Have you thought about what you truly want out of your wedding day?  If you picture yourself 3, 5, or 10 years from now, are there things that you think you’d regret doing or not doing?

I think your wedding should be what you want no matter the size – whether that’s a formal event with a fancy gown and a sit-down dinner, or a more casual affair. 

Post # 5
4044 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

I don’t think you have to deal with hotel reservations, it’s a nicety but not necessary.

I think not inviting the OOTers is fine, as long as they are the same kind of relation. I mean its your choice, but if you include the three sisters who live nearby but not the one who lives in another state, the OOTer will feel excluded.

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