Post # 1
So after lots of wondering (hence ‘wondering woman’) lately about my relationship, I finally decided to search for some answers online which led me to finding this great board of questions and answers! Hopefully a few of gals here could provide me with a few answers!
So! This upcoming week we will have celebrated our two year anniversary (not married or engaged, but long term relationship right now). We have discussed our future together, potentially living together, marriage, phrases like “so when we have kids…etc.” And we had been discussing this till very recently for the past while. But just randomly, all of a sudden, in the last few days he seems to be acting rather quiet, hasn’t said hardly anything, and rather distant which isn’t that normal. So, I was hoping maybe someone might have an idea as to what it could be?? Perhaps something to do with the occasion coming up?
Thanks in advance for your comments!
Post # 3
It could be an upcoming proposal… Have you discussed marriage in detail or just passing comments?
Post # 4
@S2013: Hmm a bit of both!..well if you mean when/where to get married I think I’ve mentioned it in passing comments but not in great detail have we discussed it. It’s only things like plans we’d have and things we would want to do together, fun/exciting things about being married, how we’d potentially raise our kids, and that he knows I want to be with him. We’ve been passing those comments in the course of the last month or so even more so. The timing of the distant thing with the anniversary has made me oh so curious to what might be the reason!
Post # 5
@WonderingWoman: Honestly it could be anything.
Maybe he’s stressed at work. Maybe he’s just had a crappy week. Maybe he has something else entirely on his mind. Maybe he’s planning a proposal.
Hoping that it’s something really good… either way hopefully he starts acting normal again soon so you don’t have to keep wondering 🙂
Welcome to the hive by the way!
Post # 6
It really could be anything, just talk to him and find out whats going on.
Post # 7
Oh, I guess I should mention that I had specifically asked if anything was the matter/why he was distance but he specifically avoided that question! Which is why I was even more curious if it has anything to do with the occassion.
And thanks, it’s my first time/first post here!
Post # 8
@WonderingWoman: i hope i dont come off negative and i hope im wrong but in my personal experience’s with my own relationships that had happened to me twice and twice it was the end of the relationship. it was another women or then realizing that i was not the one or that they were not ready for marriage, kids etc… i hope its a proposal in your case but space 9 out of 10 times is never a good thing. may i ask how old you guys are?
Post # 9
@HisNightOwl2014: Sorry to hear that 🙁 Hm, well I definitely hope that isn’t the case for me…Both 24
Post # 10
It could be a proposal! My Fiance was so distant for two months that I thought with how busy we were work-wise we needed to work on our relationship. Turns out he was sneaking to the jewelry store.