(Closed) Hold off or not to hold off that is the question

posted 5 years ago in Traditions
  • poll: Would you hold off?
    No i can't help myself :) : (5 votes)
    26 %
    Yeah it will make that night much more special : (12 votes)
    63 %
    I'm gettin mine up until i'm in my dress then he'll have to wait until after wedding ;) : (2 votes)
    11 %
    Either way/ not decided : (0 votes)
  • Post # 3
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    Honey bee
    • Wedding: April 2014

    @mariegerbasi:  i told my FH none for 2 weeks before the wedding he said no way lol

    Post # 4
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    Buzzing Beekeeper
    • Wedding: August 2013

    I’m going to be super lame and say that there’s a good chance we’re going to be so busy/exhausted the week before that we might abstain unintentionally!

    Post # 5
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    430 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: August 2013

    I was thinking of doing the exact same thing, it will make it more special!

    Post # 8
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    Helper bee
    • Wedding: May 2013

    I’m going to do at least 2 weeks. I think it will make our wedding night that much better. 

    Post # 9
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    Buzzing Beekeeper
    • Wedding: December 2012

    My husband is military and deploys often. As someone who regularly has to go without sex, having him come home does not make it more special, more magical or better.

    It makes us desperate for it.

    I wouldn’t opt out of sex before marriage, but that’s just me. There’s nothing “better” about waiting.

    Edit: “Absense makes the heart grow fonder” is not the case in my husband and I. We just get frustrated that we can’t do anything about it. There’s no fireworks, no fire lighting up the sky. Just two people who were unwillingly deprived of sex.

    Post # 10
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    Honey bee
    • Wedding: April 2012

    If that’s what you two want to do then go ahead.

    Post # 11
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    Newbee
    • Wedding: August 2013

    Give it some time….but lets be honest, no matter what you do…you won’t be able to keep your hands off of him that day and night!

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