(Closed) Holding hands?!?

posted 5 years ago in Relationships
  • poll: How often do you hold hands with your SO?
    All the time (Who initiates it? Comment below please) : (126 votes)
    33 %
    Most of the time (Who initiates it? Comment below please) : (173 votes)
    45 %
    Rarely ever (Who initiates it? Comment below please) : (71 votes)
    19 %
    Never! It is just uncomfortable (Really?!? Comment below please) : (8 votes)
    2 %
    Other (Please explain) : (5 votes)
    1 %
  • Post # 3
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    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: May 2014

    Now and then, usually when we are in the car going somewhere. Or when walking to or from the car to wherever we went (restaurant, park, museum, etc.).

    Post # 4
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    Honey bee
    • Wedding: November 1999

    I said rarely.  We dont really in the car at all. We really only do when we are walking somewhere. Like last night we were at a concert and held hands in the crowd when we were leaving and down the street. But on the walk to the concert we didnt hold hands. 

    So sometimes we do. We’re not a PDA kind of couple. 

    Post # 5
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    1278 posts
    Bumble bee

    While in the car?  Rarely.  He is a very catious driver and thinks it is a distraction, so when we do, I initiate and I am the one driving.

    Post # 6
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    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: December 2010

    I said rarely ever. It is about 50/50 with who initiates.

    Post # 7
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    298 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: January 2014

    We hold hands alot. Almost always when we are driving, not too much when we are walking around although now we are doing it more often. He initiates it like 70% of the time. Something weird that we do is sleep while holding hands.

    Post # 8
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    Honey bee

    We do all the time, especially in the car and walking around the store. He usually initiates, but I’ll reach over if I really want. 

    Post # 9
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    462 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: May 2014

    If we’re not holding hands, he’s touching my leg, or has his arms around my shoulders. He’s EXTREMELY touchy-feely. I’m learning, but because my family hardly knows how to hug, it’s been not as easy… Even though I love it.

    When we’re walking around campus, or to places or from them, we’re almost always holding hands. I don’t really know who initiates it for that. I know I do sometimes, and I know he does sometimes….

    Post # 10
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    7908 posts
    Bumble Beekeeper
    • Wedding: March 2012 - Pelican Grand Beach Resort

    Sometimes we hold hands while driving, but I hate when my hands get sweaty. Also, now that I’m pregnant and paranoid, I really want the driver to have both hands on the wheel.

    Post # 11
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    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: May 2012

    We do when we’re alone, but not every time, and we rarely ever do when we’re in the company of others.

    Post # 12
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    Honey bee
    • Wedding: August 2013 - Brookfield Zoo

    All of the time!  I guess we both initiate it equally.  We used to hold hands in the car but then FI confessed that he didn’t really like it, which I was shocked to hear because he’s the one who first started doing it!  LoL

    Post # 13
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    4049 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: January 2014

    All the time! I love it. I’m usually the one who initiates. Sometimes he takes his hand away, and I snatch it back! He actually seems to prefer to hold me around the waist when we walk. We’re both rather touchy with each other.

    Post # 14
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    3769 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: February 2013

    We rarely do. Maybe walking around somewhere, if I initiate.

    Post # 15
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    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: June 2013

    We hold hands a lot.  I think I initiate it most of the time but it definitely goes both ways.  🙂

    Post # 16
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    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: July 2013

    I said rarely. I’ll initiate in the car otherwise we usually do when we’re out in the evening going to and from the car and we both initiate in situations like that. Sometimes we link arms instead and I always initiate that. I tend to be more touchy feely than FI but over the past 6 years he’s gotten a lot better. 😉

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