- 6 years ago
- Wedding: November 1999
My life has turned hell and should be the happiest year of my life.
I really no longer want a wedding. My family have been &#%ing horrible. My one sister has been a maidzilla. And now Fiance and I have bought a house.
Family has attacked me nonstop for two weeks. My mom is a widow and lonely in her big house. I took a job in her town freelance because I could plan the wedding and make some money and keep her company. I paid her a small amount $100 a week plus utilities. I’m sleeping in my old room and don’t eat her food as I am on Jenny Craig and get my own.
5yrs ago before I met Fiance. My mom took out a line of credit and. BaileD me out of some financial trouble. I have been paying it back but yes a little slower than I show have. Thishave created a family shit storm. They feel Fiance should not have bought a house but cashed our rrsp andpaid my mom. If we didthat we paying income on the money. If its used for a house payment it’s tax free. My plan is that I will continue to pay $250 per week and if there is any balance owing in five years we will remortgage and pay here off. No one see how’s us getting a house is a safer option to get her paid back faster. Our current rent is more than the mortgage. It seems like a no braisear to me. We are paying our own wedding and have been saving for two years to do it. It’s not extravagant.
Bottom line seems they want me to unbuy house and get married at city hall so I can pay my mom more money back.
They have effectively tainted my first wedding and my first house. I am now looking for a project back home so I can get out of here