Post # 1
Bees! This is a fun one (: Who is (or did) keeping the hoo ha from their SOs until the wedding night and how long are you making them wait??? It’s been about a week, but will be about a month when the time comes. I am definitely growing needy, if you know what I mean (; He thinks I’m gonna cave….. but I want it to be ah-mazing, so I know I can wait!
Post # 3
I didn’t. I don’t really see the point in this if you’re not waiting for religious reasons.
Post # 4
@crayfish: +1 no poll option for that!
Post # 6
I don’t plan to. And for the love of God if you are old enough to get married you are old enough to say vagina, penis and sex.
Post # 7
Do you really say hoo ha? Are you talking about sex or something else?
Post # 9
I commonly go without sex because my husband is military. I can tell you from first hand, it isn’t going to make your first night together any more special.
There will be people who will disagree with me, people who think I’m wrong, but all I can offer is my first hand experience.
If you’re two, consenting, loving adults, why bother denying one another that two people in love give one another?
It doesn’t make it special, or amazing, or more pleasurable… it doesn’t make you appreciate it more, it doesn’t make you feel like you flew over the moon and back.
Sex is a part of a healthy relationship and while it shouldn’t be the cornerstone, you wouldn’t deny each other hugs or kisses or other intimate things. I just don’t see the point in denying each other sex. It makes people cranky and irritable.
Post # 10
IT’s been a while for me and Fiance. we are long distance and I’m used to it. I plan on holding out for as long as I/we can…I love anticipation.
Post # 11
We aren’t going to hold off, and we talked about it already and I honestly don’t even think we will have sex on our wedding night… We both know we are going to be exhausted!! If we do then great, but we aren’t going to force it…of we are tired, we’re passing out!!
We have a very healthy sex life, and we have a very romantic honeymoon planned immediate following the wedding, so there will be plenty of time for some action while we are away.
Post # 12
Idk, I used to agree that once you’ve already been having sex, stopping to hold out before the wedding was silly, wouldn’t make it special or better, etc.
however, Fiance has been gone for the past two weeks M-F and is only home on weekends due to training for his new job. Even five days is a long time for us to go without sex, and let me tell you, the sex we’ve been having on the weekends he’s home is AMAZING. We both anticipate it all week and want each other so badly by the time Saturday’s here, and it makes for some awesome sexy time 😉
We weren’t going to hold out, but now we’re considering it just so that our honeymoon will be even more explosive.
Post # 13
There’s nothing wrong with having sex the morning of. In fact, I’d recommend it.
Post # 14
@lilbluebird: I will add that option (:
@Milo: yes it is about sex! putting a penis inside a vagina or whatever you and your SO may be in to! (;
@Hyperventilate: for me personally, the longer I wait, the better (more intense!) it is. I understand if it isn’t for others. Thanks for your explination!
@FortiesFlare: I should add a ‘too tired’ option too! my Fi and I are eloping, so I sometimes don’t think of the traditional. thanks for the idea/reminder!
@TattedNYBride: now that is an answer I can relate to! thanks for sharing!
@dancingriss: I actually agree with that! I’ve heard after a good orgasm the blood rushes to your face to give a healthy glow. I wouldn’t mind that for pics! not to mention letting out sme anxiety before the big event!
keep ’em comin ladies! and remember, it’s just for fun!
Post # 15
@princess-pea: Just don’t get your hopes up. When men don’t regularly do the deed or masturbate, it’s not going to last very long.
Post # 16
@Hyperventilate: sorry if this is tmi, but he gets a good hand job when he wants one. I don’t like to make him unhappy, my goal is to make the sex more of a bang! (from past experiences it has worked as such)