(Closed) Holiday budgets for our S.O.'s

posted 6 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
2214 posts
Buzzing bee

I don’t think so. I usually spend around $500 on my SO for Hanukkah. If you can afford it and want to spoil him, then go for it. πŸ™‚

Post # 4
2419 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: August 2015

Because we are saving for a house/wedding and SO is saving for a ring, we decided our budget for Christmas this year is $200.

If you can afford it, go for it.

Post # 5
3943 posts
Honey bee

Wow, Ive never spent that much on him for a holiday. We have to buy gifts for both familes so usually whatever money is left after that we buy something for eachother. Last year we did just stockings and had a max of $50 each. And since we are splurging on the wedding and honeymoon this month, Christmas will probably be very small this year! πŸ™‚

Post # 6
4334 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

Wow – I feel cheap now.

Darling Husband and I usually splurge on one big-ticket item together (in the past it’s been things like a Wii, an external hard drive, etc.) – we are thinking a mattress this year.

Then we do stocking stuffers with a $50 limit. 


Post # 7
2415 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: August 2015

Last year was our first Christmas together and our budget was $100. This year we will be trying to save up for an apartment, but we also both have full-time jobs now, so it might even out to being about the same or less

Post # 8
3375 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

Wow! Darling Husband is pretty cheap with me, he usually gives himself a $50 budget and hand makes my gifts (UGH). But I normally spend $200 on his birthday or Christmas.

Post # 9
868 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

we have only had 1 christmas together. last year i got him 2 things probably totalling 70 or 80. He got me earrings, which i loved, but they weren’t diamonds or anything so i’m guessing he spent $100. we never discussed a budget but i think our gifts were similarly simple. i don’t foresee ever giving him a budget because i can’t see him spending that much $ without consulting me.

Post # 10
170 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

We usually spend about $100 each. Usually its one big gift or several small ones.

Post # 11
80 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: July 2014

Last year was our first real Christmas together and we spent about $600-$700… it was a really special Christmas and anyways I found it really hard not to splurge. I am far from rich but I love buying things for him! And he did a great job with mine as well. However, those of you who spend only $50-$100 are not CHEAP, you are SMART!! We are saving for a wedding and house now and the idea of spending all that money on Christmas gifts again this year is not a smart move.. Especially when most of the gifts we buy for Christmas aren’t exactly necessities. This year we need a snowmobile for our new cabin, so we decided instead of buying a bunch of gifts, we will put our money together and buy a cheap skidoo and call it our Christmas gifts, as well as do stockings and maybe one or two small gifts. Although we’re technically looking at more money than last year, its different because we we’re going to buy it anyways hah.

Post # 12
1856 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: March 2013

Oh wow. We don’t have a specific budget, but it’s usually around $100 or less for Christmas and birthdays. This doesn’t count the $20-ish we spend on presents our daughter chooses for each of us for holidays. We usually buy a few smaller gifts for holidays, plus birthdays we treat the other to dinner.

Your budget seems like a lot, but we’re grad students and we have a child and a lot of other priorities, so we just prefer to spend a lot less.

Post # 13
1111 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

@LilySarah:  I think that is very sweet, and if you can afford it, go for it!  It is way more than I have ever been able to spend on my Fiance (usually it’s around $200 for Christmas with the big gift(s) and stocking stuffers) – but if I could, I would surely spend more!  It’s fun spoiling loved ones.  Smile

If you are concerned about him feeling bad about how much you are spending on him, maybe you could spread the gifts out and do a “12 days of Christmas”-type thing…  Like one day it’s something little like a $10 Starbucks gift card, and another day it’s a bigger ticket item?  Then intersperse the expensive things with the less expensive things so he doesn’t open all this stuff at once and feel like, “WHOA!  How expensive was all this?!”  You want him to concentrate on how awesome the gifts are and not worry about the cost, no?

Just a thought because I think it’s a valid concern that he might end up feeling guilty that you spent so much when he couldn’t do the same for you…

Post # 14
2556 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

We always set a budget and one of us blows it.  Last year I told him $200 bucks tops. Yeah, I ended up with new Racehl Ray pots, a Kindle Fire, Coach perfume, Coach wristlet and a $50 Amazon gift card.  Blew my crappy Northface and (cheap) college basketball tickets out the window!

I really want to set a budget this year and stick with it because we are trying to save for a wedding and an out of state move (the moving part in the next year or two), not to mention we’re going to Disney mid-January.  So, we’ll see.  I usually go crazy & don’t think $750 is high at all if you’ve got the money!

Post # 15
13099 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: July 2010

Wow!  That is a ton!

Darling Husband and I make pretty darn good money (IMO) and we had a budget of $300 each last year (and that had to buy 5 different presents – could be equal valued, 1 big and 4 little, etc – but had to total 5 things).

We thought that was a lot and, because we just bought a house, we’re decreasing that budget this year to around $150-$200.

Post # 16
9483 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2012

We don’t set a budget.  We are pretty good with spending around the same, comfortable amount for the two of us.  It’ll be a small Christmas this year because of our wedding soon.

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