- 9 years ago
- Wedding: June 2010
So, the mr. and i have a long history but to make it short, we got together in Jan after years of being apart, he proposed in May and we are getting married June 2010.
He is pretty stubborn and he never had the close knit family life that I grew up with. He has 3 little girls ( my soon to be step children) and now we are faced with crazy split holidays, his parents are divorced, my parents are divorce, and he has been divorced.
None of that bothers me except we are planning this wedding and half of the close important family in my life he hasnt met! Over the summer there were a few parties that he couldnt attend for some reason or another and we havent been together long enough for him to make it to the holiday stuff
My Thanksgiving traditions have always been the same, until now, we cooked at our place, now that Christmas is in a few days and I want to go to the place where I always go, even if its just to stop in and say hi and he is freaking out about it cause i never told him this was my tradition. Not to mention he hasnt met most of them.
Its like i cant win. I mean, i want to create my own traditions with him, but i dont want my family to think that just because of my relationship i am going to forget about all of them.
I could go on all day but this was hard enough to write to the point where you may want to waste your time reading it.
I know there has to be someone out there that can relate.
I told him that he didnt have to go, but he thinks that if he doesnt i will yell at him (haha) i mean ill be disappointed but i will still go for a little while with or without him.