(Closed) Holy Crap-What do I do?

posted 7 years ago in Emotional
Post # 77
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Busy Beekeeper

@Luckygal5571:  Thinking of you and hoping your appointment today goes well.  HUGS!

Post # 78
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: November 2012

I’m so sorry for you and for your situation.  It breaks my heart to read the pain you are in.

I think you need to take a good look at this man you are about to marry.  If you are feeling that you need to terminate a pregnancy because you are scared of his reaction, there are some very serious issues at hand and I recommend – I would insist if you were my friend – that you seek the advice of a professional therapist.  If this is the start of your relationship, you being scared to talk to him about a pregnancy, then where is this relationship headed?  Do you really think this man would make a good parent? 

Post # 79
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

Any updates??

Post # 80
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

I hope everything is working out to your benefit… can we have an update?

Post # 81
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Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: July 2013 - UK

Yes, please update… you’ve got us all worried!

Post # 82
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

I really hope you’re ok….  I think a lot of bees are worried about you.

Post # 83
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Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: July 2013 - UK

Second this! Please tell us what happened! Are you OK?

Post # 84
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

Just chiming in hope you are ok and hope for a update! ((HUGS))

Post # 85
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

Sent from my Android

Sent from my Android

Sent from my Android

Post # 86
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

Have you ever discussed your previous termination with your SO?  It may be that he doesn’t realise the emotions you went through at that time, and I think it is very important to you whatever you decide to do this time to have a full and  open discussion about it.

Whatever ends up happening, I wish you all the best, and am sending internet hugs all the way to you!  Stay strong and remember that in the end, it’s your choice regardless of what he thinks.

Post # 87
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2012 - Motor museum

Good luck with all of this. I hope he comes around

Post # 88
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Worker bee

I hope you are well! Please update. I believe that you would never regret having your baby, but could be hurting from your abortion for life. Trust your instincts.

Post # 89
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

I truly hope things are looking better for you.

I just wanted to share that I have a friend that actually got pregnant with an IUD that was still perfectly in place. I guess sometimes it can just happen by chance, since no form of birth control is 100% effective. She recently gave birth to a completely healthy, beautiful baby girl and her pregnancy had no complications what-so-ever. 🙂 So try not to worry too much about that aspect of this whole dilemma.

Best of luck to you!

 

Post # 90
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2011

Just hoping you are OK.  Your fellow bees are here for you.

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