(Closed) Honestly – would you care if someone was scantily clad…

posted 5 years ago in Etiquette
  • poll: Would you care about a guest wearing a skanky dress?
    Yes - it would actually bother me : (101 votes)
    27 %
    It would bother me for maybe a few moments, but then I'd forget about it : (157 votes)
    42 %
    No - who cares : (107 votes)
    29 %
    Other : (8 votes)
    2 %
  • Post # 3
    2269 posts
    Buzzing bee

    @mscuppycake:  It’d give me a little giggle as I inwardly judged, but that’s about it. Not one of the things I’d waste time on.

    Post # 4
    2055 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: October 2014

    @mscuppycake:  lol no, they just make themselves look silly. 

    Post # 5
    5242 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: April 2013

    @mscuppycake:  I wouldnt care cause its not me dressed like that. I went to a friends wedding and this girl was wearing a dress where he boobs were falling out everywhere but she is the one who looks like the fool. I was just glad no one woere a bikini or speedo to my destination wedding for pictures sake LOL 

    Post # 6
    4047 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: January 2014

    I’d side eye them, but unless they were naked, I wouldn’t let it bother me.

    Post # 7
    5189 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: February 2013

    @mscuppycake:  It wouldn’t bother me more at my wedding than anywhere else. My friend’s wife wore a skanky dress to my wedding. The fact that it was 12 sizes too small on her just made me look better in comparison lol. She got a lot of snickers from my other guests that evening. 

    Post # 8
    7271 posts
    Busy Beekeeper
    • Wedding: June 2013

    There was a very scantily clad female at my wedding. All I did was look at her and think “damn, I wish I could pull that off” and continued with my night.

    A few guests did make comments on her outfit but I didn’t care at all.

    Post # 9
    815 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: August 2015

    Depends HOW scantily clad. A tight, low cut dress is not worth fussing over. It’s how SHE is dressing herself, not how I am dressed.

    If it is RIDICULOUS (like pasties or something, although I cannot think of ever seeing anything this bad)it becomes disrespectful in my opinion.


    Post # 10
    8471 posts
    Bumble Beekeeper
    • Wedding: July 2012


    I called my husband’s neice out on it the next time I saw her. 

    It’s rude & EXTREMELY INAPPROPRIATE! What the hell are some girls thinking?! It’s a wedding, not a night club. 

    Post # 11
    2144 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: June 2013

    A couple of our friends showed up in really short, revealing dresses. I told them both they looked awesome. One of them was even wearing ivory, I didn’t care.

    Post # 12
    594 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: October 2014

    I don’t think it would really bother me, but it would defintiely warrent a facepalm. Some women just don’t know how to dress to weddings, but at the end, nobody cares and she only makes herself look like an idiot. The only issue I think I would really have with it is that, although we are not religious, we are getting married in a Catholic church, so having your breasts and ass fall out is really innapropriate and uncomfortable for a lot of the religious people.

    Post # 13
    5 posts
    • Wedding: October 2014

    Yes, it would my FI’s family is extremely conservative and it would all come down on me.

    Post # 14
    3296 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: August 2013 - An amazing non-profit retreat

    I wasn’t bothered on the wedding day, but I am bothered looking at the photos. My co-workers were shocked by what Mother-In-Law wore… a tight, short, one shoulder dress. She isn’t petite at all. I was too happy on the day to notice, but now I wonder wtf she was thinking. Also, my brother’s gf wore a hot pink tight minidress. She could pull it off, but she could have been a bit more conservative, knowing my family.

    Post # 15
    1401 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: February 2014

    I wouldn’t care.  They’re the ones that have to deal with comments or side-eyes.  It wouldn’t take anything away from me.

    Post # 16
    8695 posts
    Bumble Beekeeper
    • Wedding: September 2013

    @Chrysoberyl:  this


    At my wedding there were 1 or 2 people who wore very tight and short dresses. I honestly didnt care. However, after the wedding I had at least 3 people make mention of it. 

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