Honesty

posted 2 years ago in Engagement
Post # 2
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479 posts
Helper bee

Steph26 :  I wouldnt know why you did what you did. I just don’t understand – Why would you say yes to someone asking you to marry you while the whole time you’re cheating with your ex? I feel sorry for your fiance. Do the right thing and tell him what happened. But that will risk your engagement. If you don’t want to risk your engagement, dont tell your fiance but you must really change- completely cut your ties with your ex, forget about him and devote yourself to your fiance. 

Post # 3
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1851 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: December 2017

Honestly it sounds to me like you need to call off the wedding and take some time away from both of these men.

Post # 4
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367 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: July 2019

You sound very immature.. i wouldn’t suggest you to marry or be engaged to anyone at this point of time till you sort your issues out! And come clean to your fiance, he deserves that much!

Post # 6
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5572 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: July 2018

Do not continue planning this wedding, do not trick this poor guy into a disastrous marriage with a cheating wife. 

Post # 8
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367 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: July 2019

Steph26 :  Then TELL THE TRUTH! If you are worried it will bite your cheating ass one day, come clean now. And if your Fiance can forgive you, then please don’t betray him anymore. If your Fiance can’t, then well… You definitely deserve it.

THEN… maybe you can go back to your ex since clearly you have feelings for him and you’re jealous when he tries to move on.. Hopefully you won’t continue cheating on him with your then-ex Fiance. Or you will go round and round!

Post # 9
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479 posts
Helper bee

Steph26 :  question yourself whether you love your fiance whole heartedly and whether you can be with him for the rest of your life and not glance at anyone else including your ex. If you doubt, then call off the wedding and sort yourself out before committing into another relationship. You are only 25… still very young. 

Post # 10
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5572 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: July 2018

Steph26 :  If I was your Fiance it would not matter to me if you had stopped seeing him now or not.  Just before he proposed you were planning to run off with your ex! Why did you even say yes?

Post # 11
Member
471 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: July 2018

Postpone this wedding. This is an awful idea if you still want to be with your ex.

I agree. Ditch them both.

Post # 13
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3452 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2017 - Poppy Ridge Golf Course

You’re not mature enough to marry this man or any other. Come clean with your fiance and let him decide how to proceed but don’t take his choice away with further dishonesty. Regardless of what you do I would at the very least postpone this wedding. He deserves better.

Post # 15
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3452 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2017 - Poppy Ridge Golf Course

And how the f*ck does one “cut contact with him more or less totally”? 😒 Either you have or you haven’t cut all forms of communication with this person.

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