(Closed) Honeyfund, cash bars, and dollar dances (except culture) is so TACKY and RUDE!!!

posted 7 years ago in Gifts and Registries
Post # 3
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Buzzing bee

Having an opinion doesn’t make you right.

Remember that.

Post # 4
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: November 2012

sigh.

Post # 6
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2011 - Tre Bella, Mesa, AZ

TROLLLL!!!

Let me get the popcorn. BRB

Post # 7
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Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2012

You want to tell us how you really feel? The word tacky is so overused and to be honest with you, you can say anything is tacky. A bride who has had sex and/or that has children and wears white is tacky. A bride getting married outdoors is tacky. A bride who has a cocktail reception is tacky. A bride that puts a registry card in with the invites is tacky. A bride that wears colored shoes is tacky. Tacky tacky tackity tack tacky!

Why can’t people see that not every wedding is cookie cutter and not every guest is the Queen of England? William and Kate asked guests to donate, but sometimes bees will say that is tacky and we shouldn’t tell guests to donate to a cause they may not believe in. Dollar Dances are a Polish tradition. You can’t say it’s tacky for one group but not another. Cultures and traditions spread and others take on the idea. Do we tell brides who aren’t Mexican but want a Cinco De Mayo themed wedding that they are tacky?

Post # 8
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

I wrote a post here, but then decided not to engage and deleted it lol.

Post # 9
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: June 2011

Anyone else feel like there should be some sort of test before we’re allowed to post?! Jeez.

 

Post # 11
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Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

and calling someone else tacky is judgemental.

Post # 13
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2011 - Tre Bella, Mesa, AZ

I’m also curious what (except culture) means. ???

Post # 14
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: March 2012

@thewheelsonthebus: haha. I just spewed water all over the couch. And my dog is looking at me like I have 3 heads. but I totally agree 🙂

Post # 15
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: December 2009

Oh my….thankfully I recognize that everybody is entitled to their opionion…even if I happen to think they’re the ones that are so wrong..lol

Post # 16
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

i fail to see how this warrants any kind of response. 

OP: how bout you crawl back into the hole you came out of and while you’re at it, stop going to weddings! your poor friends.

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