Post # 1
My Fiance and I have been together for a long time (I am the only girl he has ever slept with). our sex life is good, but has been in a little bit of a rut lately due to being busy and stressed. i really want to make our honeymoon great and amazing and the best sex ever! Any sex tips/advice/techniques? It would be appreciated!
Post # 3
stop having sex now!!! me and my Fiance agree we want to abstain months before the wedding. just an idea! u could also look into massage oils, or uhmmm toys? lol
Post # 4
Go to a fancy lingere store, buy something you’ve never worn before, put it on and wait 😛
When you feel sexy, he will sense that, and when you LOOk sexy he will see that!
Post # 5
@missashley884: did you do all other stuff and just not sex? or stopped everything completely?
Post # 6
@beachgirl21: We like to set a timer and you have to have foreplay for that amount of time.
So I’ll mention that I wanna have sex earlier in the day but with code words that only we know. Such as you wanna eat some pizza tonight. then no one knows what we’re talking about and it doesn’t sound dirty or lame but you both have something to look forward to. Although I’ve learned that it’s gotta be late afternoon, to early and we get busy and forget.
Post # 7
I honestly don’t buy the whole “stop having sex thing”. If it works for you, great – but there are plenty of other ways to have great sex on your honeymoon.
Buy some new lingerie that is specific for the honeymoon. I had a new outfit for each night. Be more spontaneous than normal – if you’re always a right before bed kind of relationship, have a quickie before lunch or dinner. You’ll be extra lovey-dovey anyway because it is your honeymoon so I wouldn’t stress too much about your current rut.
Post # 8
Before the honeymoon I bought a whole bunch of new lingerie, intending to be super sexy and make it extra special. Well, I only wore one outfit, (wedding night). We were so lovey dovey and there was so much love and chemistry in the air that by the time we’d get to our hotel room, we were just all over each other. No time to change into lingerie or do anything fancy or eleborate.
I think the natural high of being newly married might be all you need to make it extra amazing and special.
Also, I couldn’t imagine stopping having sex for months. I would be unpleasant and cranky