Post # 1
So I am perfectly comfortable with my FH (as you should be)
But we have actually had the conversation that we don’t see the point in dressing up for sex (because you’re just going to take it off again)
So I have never bought lingerie or anything of the like and I need some help because I want to surprise him on our honeymoon (we don’t live together so I have that in my favour too because I won’t have to worry about him finding things he shouldn’t haha)
But every lingerie site I have trawled all have really dirty looking lingerie (nipple holes cut out, crotchless panties, leather, and suspenders and stockings everywhere)
I am not adverse to crotchless panties (I reckon it would be a good laughing point for us too anyway) but I want something classy.
My idea of lingerie is a bra and panties that match, maybe involving some lace or other pretty embellishment. Something that will make me feel like a woman rather than a porn star.
I like corsets but I hate stockings! I also am not big on the Camis (the mini dress looking things) which is all I could really find at Victorias Secret.
Please help! Am I being unrealistic? I need some sites that I can go to that are elegant and womanly with out being too “little girl” (too much pink and cutesy stuff)
I have now found my stash of porn star stuff which we will both probably crack up laughing at before anything else got to happening, but i want something that I can also wear under clothes without it being too noticable (because we are more about spontaneity rather than me going into the bathroom for 10 minutes to “prepare”)
Post # 3
Victoria secret has super cute stuff.
Post # 4
@adillon1: been there but didn’t like any of it 🙁
I think I may be a freak of nature
Post # 5
Try Frederick’s of Hollywood?
Post # 6
@sydneybridetobe1991: Did you try going to the Victoria’s Secret store? They are very helpful if you just tell them what you’re looking for. That’s what I had to do because I’m not very good at that kinda stuff lol
Post # 7
Have you ever looked at La Senza? It seems they’ve expanded to Australia now
Post # 8
@adillon1: True this! Go into a big Victoria’s Secret and tell them what you’re looking for. I’ve always found they are so helpful and can fetch anything for you. I think they have a nice selection – girly, sexy, dirty, innocent, etc.
Post # 9
@sydneybridetobe1991: One of my absolute favorite stores for lingerie and stockings is: http://www.secretsinlace.com/
The lingerie is classy and has a vintage feel to it. The quality of the fabrics used is great too.
What type of lingerie are you interested in purchasing? If you tell us that may help. Are you looking for bra/panty sets, babydolls, a chemise, robes? The possibilites are endless! Also, where are you going on your honeymoon? That might help us guide you towards different styles of lingerie.
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Post # 11
I found some gorgeous lingerie for our wedding night at an upscale ladies wear store, rather than a “lingerie” store. If you’re doing stealth lingerie under your clothes, a nice bra and panty set (and maybe stockings depending on the weather) are the way to go. It’s hard to hide a corset. Make sure he knows you’re wearing them all day!
I think if you want to ease your way in to lingerie without commiting to a G-string all day, look into silk/satin slips to substitute for pjs. Unless you sleep in the nude, then I’m all out of ideas. Also – you don’t have to take your lingerie off to do the deed!!
Have fun 🙂
Post # 12
I personally love dollhouse betty, they have a lot of nice stuff in really nice fabrics.
I believe they have a wide variety of bridal stuff