Post # 1
So my finace and i got in an argument the other night… His sister (my MOH) and her husband have a time share where we are going for our honeymoon… The orginal plan was that my finace and i would stay at a resort for 4 nights then have his sister and husband fly in and then we would stay with them at the time share. Reasoning for this is cost effectiveness and that we can have our honeymoon alone time plus have the perks of doing things with a couple that we socialize with on a daily basis. However, now he has come up with the idea that we will be with the other couple the entire trip (staying in the time share for the full length) and not staying at a resort. I told him no, it is OUR HONEYMOON, but he thinks im being irrational and that we will get bored with just the two of us the whole time.. Just wanted to know what other brides think…
Post # 3
Put your foot down on this one. You see this other couple all the time. They are joining you in a few days. After all that craziness with the wedding you NEED some alone time. And saying he will get bored of being alone with his wife on the honeymoon is extremely hurtful. This is really a time you can never recreate, and he cannot unilaterally change the plan like this. Does he really want his sister around for the first few days when you two will be all over each other?
Post # 4
Hell to the friggin no!!!!! I love my sister in law, but I would NEVER want her on my honeymoon. It should be an intimate and romantic time between you and your new husband, not you, your hubby, his sister, and her husband. NO NO NO LOL
Post # 5
I agree with what everyone else is saying. Definitely tell him no! I don’t think it’s gonna feel like you’re on your honeymoon with another couple with (even if they are family). I would rip my Fiance a new one if he suggested such a thing lol.
Post # 6
@1112bride: thank you! my mom actually laughed when i told her.. but he just thinks i should “think about it”.. ummm no im done thinking haha
Post # 7
I would NEVER go on my honeymoon with another couple! I’m sure your sister-in-law didn’t have another couple with them on thier honeymoon! It is your alone time!
Post # 8
Say no! You need alone time! If you can’t survive 4 days together, how will you survive 40 years? I think you need alone time to celebrate without others getting in the way, no tmatter how much you love them.
Post # 9
OMG, I wouldn’t go on my honeymoon with another couple. This is definitely where you should put your foot down. This is your special alone time as a newlywed. You deserve to have a beautiful honeymoon at the resort!
Post # 10
We are having a destination wedding and after the wedding, we are leaving for a different destination! lol
There was no way I was spending my honeymoon with anyone but Darling Husband.
Post # 11
We are going to Vegas for our honeymoon. One of my friends said she wanted to drive to meet us there (From Phoenix) I told her NO! I love her to death and she is one of my best friends but no one is coming or being a part of our honeymoon. Maybe I’m selfish but I this is a special time that we can never get back. I can go to Vegas with her another time.
Post # 12
Oh My! Im not one to complain a lot, my fiance nd I luckily see eye to eye on most things but I would snap if this happened! Noooooo way, I love my future sister in law too but there is no way I would want her coming on our honeymoon, couldnt imagine!