Horrible breakup

posted 5 months ago in Relationships
Post # 31
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874 posts
Busy bee

Be strong, bee! Sometimes it takes hitting rock bottom to shock you into reality. Just try to learn from it and do not ever make the mistake again of contacting him. There is no coming back from this. 

Now that he has all his stuff back, block him and do not ever look back. Go cold turkey. I promise you will not regret it!

Find something that is soothing to you-listening to relaxing music, meditating, yoga, hot bath with some wine, some hot tea, snuggles with a pet, etc. You need some “me time” to get back in touch with yourself and find some inner peace.

Post # 32
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1331 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

beautylover92 :  That you even considered apologising to this guy is appalling. He literally put your life at risk by shoving you in an Uber in that state, you could have been raped or worse. You were incredibly lucky to be picked up by the police instead of a predator.

Congratulations on breaking free of him. Cutting contact is a huge step, feel proud. But breaking free mentally will take more time, remember that he will still have power over you if you let him. The feelings of misery and emptiness will pass. Soon you will look back and not recognise the person you were with him, because you’ll be so much better. 

Does your family know how horrible he was to you? Now is the time to fully confide in them and in friends. Take the Bees’ advice, forget the 2k he owes you and cut him out of every aspect of your life. Good luck!

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