(Closed) Horrible Etiquette! What would you do?

posted 8 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 3
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8353 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: March 2011

I am sorry that happened to your friend. There isn’t really much that your friend can do. If it were me, I wouldn’t be friends with the friend anymore. She doesn’t look like a very good friend from what you have written.

Post # 4
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159 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: January 2010

Let it go – eventually friend of bride will realize what she did and perhaps offer an appology.  She too will more than likely be married some day and understand the impact those things have.  Say nothing, be gracious she showed up for what she did.

Post # 5
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326 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2010

There’s not really anything your friend can do at this point.  It sounds like her “friend” has probably never been closely involved in planning a wedding, and will no doubt understand her wrongdoings when she gets married someday.  If your friend is interested in saving the friendship, however, she should just wait for the “friend” to approach her…confrontation would most likely only exacerbate the situation.

Post # 6
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4511 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

Agreed with what others are saying…it’s frustrating and the friend was incredibly inconsiderate, but there’s nothing to do about it except let it go and focus on all the good memories from the wedding. 

Post # 7
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2015 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: August 2009

Your friend can drop that girl as a friend, cut all losses and move on.

That girl’s behavior is horrible, but unfortunately, I mean, what can ya do? Call her up and tell her how awful she is? That likely will just result in an unnecessary fight.

Just know that this girl (not your friend) ruined the relationship, and now your friend can find comfort in the fact that this girl is out of her life.

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