- 8 years ago
- Wedding: May 2010
I asked my best friend of 15 years to be my maid of honor thinking I could trust her with the responisibility. At first she was happy and excited and always asked how the wedding plans were coming along. Over the year and a half my fiance and I bought a condo and moved up in our jobs. We decicided to have our wedding in Punta Cana this past October. About 6 months before the wedding my maid of honor started dating a man named Frank. I started not to see or hear from her. The only thing she helped me with was finding my wedding dress .. lucky for her I found it at the first store!! I would call or text her asking if she could come with me to pick flowers .. shoes..etc and I always got the same response ” imbusy” .When we did meet up she was distant and hardly asked about the wedding or house projects. She planned my bridal shower and it was wonderful .. she really did a great job! After the shower that’s when everything really went down hill. She invited her new bf frank that I met once to my destination wedding. I didnt really like that because I wanted a private wedding,,but I shut up and let it go as long as she was happy. Months following up to the wedding I hardly spoke to her and when I did it felt like she was competing with me. Or she would tell me really bad things about Frank like how hes over weight and lazy and in debt and bla bla bla … So I started to get a weird feeling about him after all she’s told me.
A week before we left on our wedding trip we moved into our condo. At this point I still havent had a bachlorette party. So last mintute my friends put toghter a limo and a club in toronto and they didnt invite her. She found out and texted me freaking out about it. I told her it was a suprise and it wasnt in my hands. They were waiting for her and she didnt pull through.
The wedding came and everything was going ok. Everyone met at the airaport and we left to punta cana. We got there late and my maid of honor turned quite and really pissed off. The next day we woke up and had breakfast and thats really the last I saw of her.
Through out the week they ditched me and my fiance and family. When we did see them they would be there miserable and wouldnt talk to anyone not even eachother. It was making everyone unconfortable. One day we were all in the ocean hanging out and Frank comes up to me and starts splashing me in they eyes with salt water. I told him to stop because of my contacts. He kept splashing me till I yelled louder and my fiance came over and told him to stop! I asked him wat his problem was ..his response .. it was a joke. Another day I asked her if she wanted to come with us to a downtown store and she said “no we would rather just relax at the pool”. Which is fine. Then later at dinner my brother tells me that they all (inlcluding my maid of honor and bf) are going downtown to a shop. Through-out the rest of the week they followed my brother wife and two kids around trying not to include us in the plans. But obvously we would be included..it’s our wedding! She tried keeping everything sercet. ANYWAYS… WEDDING DAY!
Woke up .. we chilled out the balcony. I went to the spa by myself to do my hair and makeup. The whole time she didnt come check on me once. i was ther for 3 hrs and the spa was across from our room. She meeted us at my room before the cermony. After the cermony she said congrats and left with her bf. Everyone was sopst to meet for picture at 6:00pm they didnt show up till 6:45. We waited till 6:30 then started taking pictures without them. That was a big waste of a half hr when I can be takin pics of my wedding day! Later at dinner she gave a breif non personal speech. And that was the last I seen her. When we got to Canada she sent me a nasty text saying I acted like a bitch the whole trip. I explained the way I felt and that she was so wrapped up in her bf and jelousy issues to relize your bestfriend is getting married!
What do you feel about this situation?