(Closed) Horribly stressful planning day (vent)

posted 4 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
254 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

@littlebeanpole:  I’m so sorry you had a rough day! I’m about 3 1/2 months out, and I definitely have had my moments. Mostly to do with my mother. She’s hosting (read: paying) for the wedding, so we’ve had our fair share of power struggles.


I try to just remember the end game – to be married to the love of my life. Keep that thought as the light at the end of the tunnel and you’ll be fine. Good luck!

Post # 4
4688 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: June 2013 - Upstate NY

@littlebeanpole:  Ugh I totally hear you! What’s with people not responding? Sorry your sister is being a turd. Doesn’t it suck when people don’t share our excitement about our big day? I mean, they can’t be quite as happy as we are but c’mon!!

Post # 5
755 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

ugh, that is frustrating!!  Is it possible your FI’s finger is just swollen???  I also hear you about the sister thing.  Whenever I hear that she is making comments (always from other people, we dont speak), I just smile and say she doesn’t have to come!!! 

Post # 7
755 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

@littlebeanpole:  yikes!!! I’m cringing just at the thought! Just take a deep breath and remember: It can always be worse! Everything will be fine 🙂

Post # 8
7123 posts
Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2013

@littlebeanpole:  Sorry you are having so many problems :/

Taking that long to respond is incredibly stressful! I wonder if she tried and just didn’t leave a message? TBH I would have been calling everyday starting Wednesday if my wedding was that close!

My ring is always resized within a week so I think you should be able to find a place? 

Your sister and BM are being totally rude. 10 hours is NOT bad (I have been in wedding parties that start with make up at 7:30am and with clean up go until at least 1am) and even if it is… what did they expect? They should absolutely not be giving you crap about it!

Hopefully you have a better planning day the rest of the day!


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