(Closed) Hors d'oeuvres – Passed vs. Station?

posted 6 years ago in Food
  • poll: Hors d'oeuvres - Passed vs. Station?

    Passed!

    Station!

  • Post # 2
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    Sugar bee

    I’d do both. Sometimes the lines get backed-up, around stations. With passed, you have no guantee that every guests will be offered every passed hors d’oeuvres.

    For example, my family went to a wedding last summer that offered a 1/2 hour for cocktails. They didn’t have any food on tables/stations. They only had 3 passed hors d’oeuvres. My family was only offered 1 of those 3 – pork sliders, and I don’t eat them and my daughter doesn’t like them. By the time we got to sit down, we were ready to chew on our napkins.

    Post # 3
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    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: January 2015

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    kajan457:  Can you do a combination? We had both passed and stationary and I found that worked the best. If not, I vote for stationary, then the guests know where the snacks are and can pick what they want/how much they want at once. As for the people with mobility issues people will grab their snacks for them. Like, when I’m at a buffet type place I always grab gramma some munchies, it works out just fine.

    Post # 4
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    Honey bee

    If you can do both, I would. We had two stations with a variety of items and then more composed hors d’oeuvres were passed. I think both are pretty standard at a wedding and neither looks snooty at all…they’re both standards in having a caterered event.

    Post # 5
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    Helper bee
    • Wedding: September 2015

    My friend just got married a few months ago, and did both, it was nice because the line did get a little backed up at the station.

    I am only doing the station, but because our ceremony and reception will be at the same venue, I hope that the station will not get too backed up.  The way I figure it, we are letting everyone out of the ceremony per row so we can thank everyone, so that will help with the congestion.  

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    Blushing bee

    Ideally you’d want a combination of both. I’ve been to parties with only passed appetizers and it was usually very frustrating. I’d either miss the servers going by or they’d run out before they got to me. If you have to choose one or the other I think stations is the better option. 

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    Busy bee
    • Wedding: August 2017 - Sea Cider

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    kajan457:  my baby brother is wheelchair bound, and often gets crowded out when there’s a line. I’m mobile, but dislike the way I feel rushed to grab food when stations are set up. for me, passed wins out (if you can’t have both, like PP have said).

    as for “snooty”. . .you’re having a vintage wedding in a country club. I don’t think passed appys are snooty (nor vintage weddings, nor country clubs), but if there’s a time and place for a little bit of snootiness, you’ve got it! 😉

    EDIT: FWIW, I’m doing passed appys during cocktail hour, and then having stations for dinner.

    Post # 8
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    Bee Keeper

    I’ve never thought of passed canapes as being snobby lol; so that’s a new one!

    We had passed canapes at ours; the drinks reception was fairly spread out over two rooms (live music in one; the other was quieter with more seating), and for us this made more sense. I also do believe it encourages mingling more; with a station, there can be a tendency for people to kind of just hang about next to it, or spend time queuing, which IMO is a bit of an atmosphere killer.

    If the staff are good, then ensuring that everyone is offered the full selection should not be an issue; all our guests were offered all the canapes on offer, and the staff also ascertained who are coeliac and pescatarian guests were and made sure they were offered separate platters. It was all very smooth.

    As PPs said you could do both, but I personally would lean towards passed.

    Post # 9
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    Busy bee
    • Wedding: July 2017 - Vineyard on Long Island

    i always vote for stations.  while having passed snacks adds a level of formality and allows people to continue their conversations in place, myself and my dad (we’ve vented about this at several parties) hate feeling like we have to chase down a server for food if we continue to get skipped while they’re walking around.

    at least stationary food gives people the opportunity to go back for a bit more if they’re really hungry and can make multiple trips if they need to grab food for others

    Post # 10
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    Bumble Beekeeper
    • Wedding: September 2015

    I prefer passed. I think people socialize more because they arent focused on/in line for food. And the multistation cocktail hour always stuffs people before dinner! (Or maybe thats just me, no control around bite sized yummies haha). its too much.

    Post # 11
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    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: August 2016

    We are having stations. Every wedding I have been to has had passed and its like everyone is hunting down the servers for food. I would much rather know exactly where the food will be. People can mingle while they are in line getting drinks and food!

    Post # 12
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    Busy Beekeeper
    • Wedding: May 2014

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    kajan457:  I personally prefer passed, I feel like it’s a little nicer.  Perhaps you could do a combination?  Have some stations and have some passed?

    Post # 13
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    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: May 2013

    I perfer a combo — like a cheese station but then passed hot canapes…. that way you can always grab something if you are in a rush (ie bridal party and have to be outside for pics) but its fun being served cute and fancy little foods

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    Helper bee
    • Wedding: December 2015

    I’m finding it interesting that people are suggesting both because when I suggested this to my caterer, she basically vetoed it and said I should really do one or the other. To be honest, I don’t remember her reason, so I’m going to revisit the issue, since so many of you thing the combo works best (which is what I initally thought, too).

    Post # 15
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    Helper bee
    • Wedding: June 2016

    I would also do both, since both have benefits and drawbacks. With stations you have to interrupt conversations to go and get food (though this could be welcome, depending on who you’re talking to) and with passed you may not get to sample things that you want to try. The last reception I went to did it with both and I have to say it was really great. The stations gave us an opportunity to scout out the room and the passed appetizers allowed us to have great conversations while still being fed.

    I don’t think passed appetizers are snooty, but if you can do a combo that’s what I would vote for!

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