(Closed) Host of Bachelorette party not invited to wedding

posted 7 years ago in Parties
Post # 3
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106 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

Does she know that she’s not invited to the wedding?

Post # 4
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4824 posts
Honey bee

As long as she knows she wont be invited and she still wants to, then fine. (as summer7911 said)

Some people just like to throw these things and look for any excuse. Maybe she never had her own and likes to do this for people?

Post # 5
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6823 posts
Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2011

Personally I would keep saying thank you but no thank you.  Especially if you don’t know her that well

Post # 6
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3709 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

It may be that she is assuming that she is invited to the wedding. If she is not, keep politely but firmly declining. Also, it may be a good idea to clue her in that she’s not invited and she may just withdraw the offer. 

Post # 7
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780 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

@keniki: I agree with the PPs.  If it weren’t outside of work, like if she wanted to throw you a bridal SHOWER in the conference room and decorate your desk or something, that’s ok.  You are a work aquantaince and that would be a work event.  There was a lady at my old job that just looooved to be the one who coordinated office type parties (retirement, birthday, baby/bridal, etc).   But outside of work, thank you but no thank you.  I’d feel akward if I was partying with anyone who wasn’t my real deal down and dirty girlfriends for a bachelorette party…

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