- 6 years ago
- Wedding: August 2012
Hi ladies, my shower is tomorrow (I’m so excited!) it is being hosted by my Maid/Matron of Honor (cousin) and I know my mom has done a LOT of work for it as well. I have 4 BM’s aside from my Maid/Matron of Honor, none of them are local. Three out of the 4 BM’s are attending the shower which I really appreciate bc they are all about 2-3 hours away and they are coming back 6/30 for my b party and 8/4 for the wedding. All 3 of the BM’s are showing up early to help decorate/set up. I honestly don’t know if any of them contributed money to help or not. Do I need to get all BM’s and the Maid/Matron of Honor a hostess gift? I was planning to write all BM’s a thank you note for coming/being my friend/part of the shower. Is this enough? I am planning to send my Maid/Matron of Honor and my mom each a bouquet of flowers on Monday morning. I know both of them have been very stressed out and are also ready to kill eachother after planning this shower (all in good fun though, my mom is MOH’s aunt/Godmother and they are so alike its scary, I think they have butted heads quite a few times during planning but still love eachother) do I need to do more for the BM’s or is a note enough? Also my Mother-In-Law is helping set up and she contributed monetarily, should I send her flowers? I just worry that if I do then her daughter (one of the BM’s) will wonder why I didn’t send her flowers too? Can I just send my Mother-In-Law a note too?