(Closed) House shopping

posted 6 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
934 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: April 2013

@impatientlywaiting20: Have you had a serious discussion with him about how you feel? Is there a timeline established for when he will propose? It is totally possible that he doesn’t truly understand how you feel, and doesn’t understand that you don’t want to buy a house or live together before marriage.

Make it clear to him that you will not live together before marriage, and then don’t look at houses with him. I think you do have to “hold the line” here, just a bit, by not allowing the house conversation to continue.

Post # 4
18637 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2009

I agree, I would tell him that you don’t want to buy a house before being on the same page about marriage.  I would stop looking at houses together.

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