Post # 1
I have a Maid/Matron of Honor & 2 bridesmaids. Seeing as they all have different hair types & lengths I don’t expect them to all have the exact same hairstyle. But should I be the one to decide if they all wear it up, down or let them do as they please? I really don’t care either way, but I’ve had some funny looks when I tell people I’m letting my girls wear their hair however they want. Do they all have to be the same as far as wearing it up or down?
Post # 3
- Wedding: June 2010 - New York Botanical Garden
I think if you don’t mind how they wear their hair, then it is fine to let them do what they want!
Post # 4
people looked at me crazy when i said i didn’t care how they wear their hair, i say let them choose 100% and keep your girls happy!
Post # 5
They can do whatever they want. They don’t have the same hair length or style anyway.
Post # 6
- Wedding: May 2011 - Bartram's Garden
I’m letting them do whatever they want.
Post # 7
It didn’t even occur to me to think about their hair. I think I’ll just let them do whatever makes them happy.
Post # 8
I let them do what they want. When people feel comfortable, they look their best!
Post # 9
I agree w/ all of you & are just going to let them all decide. I definitely want everyone happy & relaxed & feeling good! 🙂
Post # 10
I am also letting my ladies wear their hair any way they want. However, when I told them that they looked at me like I was a space alien or something. They know the theme and look I am going for, so I am sure however they choose to wear their hair, they will look beautiful.
Post # 11
Not only did I tell my girls they can wear their hair however they want, I also told them to wear whatever dress they want (as long as it’s navy blue, knee length and not long-sleeved), whatever shoes they want and whatever jewelry they want. I want them to feel comfortable and I trust their tastes.
Post # 12
I’m not quite to this point yet but I’m going to let them wear it however they’d like as long as it looks nice, you know- no bed head or anything similar.
Post # 14
I’m telling my girls they can wear their hair however they want!
Post # 15
However they want – they all have different dresses (same color and length) so if their hair is different, it will just coordinate with the different dresses!
Post # 16
All the girls are wearing chocolate, floor length dresses… and I decided to ask them all to wear their hair up and I would wear mine down.. they were pretty psyched about it, so it works!!