(Closed) How can I get him to understand

posted 6 years ago in Wellness
Post # 3
2622 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

That is tough because it sounds like you have real reasons to worry.

You cant change him and you have tried the honest conversation so you know have to make a choice.

Stay with him expecting him not to change, and setting yourself up for heartache.

Leave him because you cant lock yourself into a relationship with a man that will not look after his health- thereby setting yourself up for heartache.

What do you think you can live with? Is he using his weight as an excuse or does he really think its about weight?

Post # 4
667 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

He hears you trust me. He doesn’t even know how to go about changing his ways. He hears it from everyone and society. The last person he wants to hear it from is you the person who he loves deeply. The best thing you can do is set a good example.  As for the smoking goes he has to want to quit. If he doesn’t want to he will fail. 

If you make him do any of these things he will just resent you. 

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