- 4 years ago
- Wedding: December 2014
Okay bees, I’m gonna try not to make this long. I basically need help in how to help my FI. FI works in a lab in a hospital and he is pretty much their workhorse. Other techs have normal full time hours, benefits, normal workload and my FI pretty much has to do whatever else they don’t finish, his work, and whatever his boss throws at him. At the hospital he works at they’re opening a new tower that’ll double the amount of beds which in turn will double or even triple FI’s workload. He is PRN and is limited to only 32 hours a week and he still ends up having to finish working hours late to finish all the work left for him. When anything goes wrong in the lab, he’s the first person everyone points fingers at.
Bees, I’ve known FI for over 9 years and he is the hardest and most honest worker I have ever met and when he has a job, he is fully committed to doing it right. He called me today in tears because he has had it with all the hard crap he has to deal with day in and day out. I think he wants to quit and we are less than a year from our wedding. I am trying to pay what I can w/o him because of his situation and that’s really not even the problem. I just don’t know what to say/do for him that’ll help make him feel better. I know he can only handle so much. I need advice for when I talk to him tonight. Thanks bees!