(Closed) How can I include my SILs?

posted 9 years ago in Ceremony
Post # 3
2856 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2009

If you are having a religious ceremony, you can have them do readings. You can also get them involved with planning some of your events like the bridal shower or the bachelorette party.

It really is great to hear that you are including your SILs in the wedding!

Post # 5
14183 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2009

I’m not sure (i’m not Jewish) but if you can squeeze readings in, that’d be wonderful. They don’t have to be long but it’d be a nice honor.

Post # 6
1230 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: November 2008

Here are some things that my SIL did for me at the wedding without being IN the wedding:

Lit the pew candles at the beginning of the ceremony

Did a reading at the ceremony

Acted as a greeter for our guests as they arrived for our cocktail hour (Our club was huge – 5 stories- and she directed them to the coat check, gift table, sign in table and cocktails/hors d’ oeuvres)

Other than these things – I just wanted her to enjoy her evening!


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