(Closed) How can i keep my blush wedding dress a secret from my FI?

posted 6 years ago in Dress
Post # 3
3078 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

@Blushingbella:  Is he going to question why your colors/accent colors are what they are?  Most guys just go with it.  I think it’s totally possible to keep it a secret.

Post # 4
11747 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

@Blushingbella:  I think you can choose colors without telling him your dress is blush.  Does he really care what colors you pick? If not,  you pick them and just tell him what they are.  If he picks colors that won’t go with the dress, just say you don’t like them and want to do something else and compromise on something you both like that will go with the dress!

Post # 5
1571 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

I think if you pick colors that goes with the blush dress and tell him you want those as your colors, he would never wonder if it matched your dress. I really think guys just don’t think like that.

Post # 6
1571 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

Haha, looks like we are all in agreement here!

Post # 7
5242 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: April 2013

Your dress sounds very nice! I agree with the other posters that guys probably wouldnt clue into the accent colours to know your dress was blush…I know my guy wouldnt lol

Post # 9
4192 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: July 2012 - Baltimore Museum of Industry

I seriously doubt he’ll question you about the colors. I had already picked ours (each of our favorites), and asked then-FH-

“You don’t mind that I picked our wedding colors, do you?”

“I didn’t know weddings HAD colors.” 🙂

Post # 10
10453 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: February 2014

Yah… My fiancé doesn’t give a crap about what the colors are, he knows decorating is my thing and doesn’t want to get involved. I doubt your guy will question your choices either! 

Post # 14
3028 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

Unless your bf has some non-male superhero power he won’t care.  


I can’t wait to try on the blush Divina!!

Post # 15
569 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: November 2013

Where are you getting married? In a beach?

Divina is the heaviest and longest train in all of the dresses i have tried on..Two reasons why i didnt end up buying it no matter how much i adore it! Besides at 5’2″ i coulndt pull that off lols..

Def go try it on and see if it is as great on you as you imagine..

As to the colors i dont think it is a big deal if he knows.. I also dont think he will question why you pick the colors for your wedding… Guys are clueless  😉

Post # 16
34 posts
  • Wedding: October 2014

If it comes up, there’s no reason you need to tell him anything other than you chose the colours because you love them! And most colours that go with blush will go with white or ivory too.

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