(Closed) how can i tell my sister she shouldnt be maid of honor?

posted 11 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
3856 posts
Honey bee

What about making them co-MOH to save yourself the drama, and let your bff act the role, and your sister just take the name?

Post # 5
90 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

This is precisely why I questioned why people would assign Maid/Matron of Honor to a KNOWN drama queen sister. The fact is, it doesn’t matter WHAT you do, she will find a way to create drama if that’s her mission.

Choose your bridal party based on who you and Fiance want to stand with you. 

Post # 6
1356 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: February 2011

I have two MOHs!  People definitely DO it!

Post # 7
5 posts
  • Wedding: June 2011

People have 2 all the time.  I think you are a great sisiter that you want to include your sisiter as much as possible even though she lets you down! One day she will see how lucky she is.  Keep strong!

Post # 8
513 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

🙁  I definitely feel for you.  Im having the same issues with my sister, who just because she’s my sister, assumed she’d be the Maid/Matron of Honor.  Well now I have 3 MOH’s….LONG LONG STORY.   Love my sister, but it’s not what I wanted.

Sending some hugs your way, hope you figure this one out.


Post # 9
83 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: April 2012

I have four equal bridesmaids – I really dislike the idea of singling out one of my girls to be maid of honour. So they all are. They all had different roles – one organised the hen night, one is going to sign the register, one is Fi’s sis, one helped a lot with the preps – and they have all been brilliant. So you could just have ‘bridesmaids’ and no Maid/Matron of Honor.

Post # 11
274 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

My best friend feels that her younger sister may be too young to be able to handle all the major details of the wedding. I told her awhile back I didn’t care about the title and I would handle the big stuff (bridal shower and bachelorette) while carefully not stepping on lil sis’s toes, but she put her foot down and is making us co-MOHs. It is definitely doable.

However, if you don’t want her in your wedding at all – if there will be drama – then don’t have her be a Maid/Matron of Honor at all.

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