(Closed) How can people be so rude?

posted 7 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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2260 posts
Buzzing bee

Oh I’m sorry they won’t attend 🙁

Post # 4
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

Bastards!  Both of ’em!  But more cake for you!

Post # 5
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

Oh that’s sad to hear, it probably wasn’t that he was trying to be intentionally hurtful though. Sometimes life just gets in the way of the things that we really want to do. 

Post # 6
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2010

The only thing I can say to you is, what really matters in the end is the people who do take the effort to be there and support you.

I had an uncle who lives about 25 hours away and who I hadn’t seen in 5 years or so drive down 2 weeks early for my wedding. He visited all my family that was 1.5 hours from me and then decided he was tired and drove home about 4 days before my wedding, not even stopping by to see me or my mom (his sister) and letting my other aunt and uncle break the news. I was so hurt by his actions. In the end though, the people that were there were there because they love me and wanted to be there. I am really sorry that though that you are hurting now – you won’t even realize they are not there the day of the wedding you will be having so much fun  🙂

Post # 7
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

Yep I’ve had 4 dropouts recently. It’s such a bummer every time! These were people who’d RSVPed originally too.

Post # 8
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

@DaniSue13: I’m sorry to hear that. Though I have had two folks in my family who RSVPd yes, but then had to change. (It was business related for one, and then health related for another.) Just try not to let it get under your skin. And put yourself in the other’s shoes, if you can. I know it’s easier said than done.

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