(Closed) How Can This Be my Life? How Can He Be Gone?

posted 9 years ago in Emotional
Post # 61
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

Wow, I am so sorry for your loss!!!  You have me in tears!!  Thank you for sharing, I know that it must take quite a bit courage and strength already to get on here and share what’s going on, and you trust in us as friends to comfort from afar and listen.  But you are right our Savior is the one that is and WILL continue to keep you strong!  He is our Rock and our comfortor.  I wish I could give you a big hug right now!  I’m so sorry for your loss, not just as it’s close to the wedding but around the time of the holidays too.

I will be happy to add you, your family and your future family to my prayer list and I will mention to my man as well to pray for you! 

It reminds me that I heard that Elizabeth Kennedy died that day too and she had said on her FB page, “You never know when it’s your time, your days are numbered.”  Hang on to the fact that God has something in mind and planned for you and for your family right now and hang on to him.  He will see you thru and you will come out of this soon.  It’s ok to feel like you feel…remember all grief differently you have to do it your way.  Pain might never go away, but you have God and you have his memory that will Never go away either!!  Pray about the wedding, see what God wants you to do.

Post # 62
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1235 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

I am so sorry for your loss. I don’t think there is anything I or anybody else can say that will make it any better but just remember, he is with you even when you cannot see him. When I lost my brother (and I know it isn’t that same) it helped me and still helps sometimes to just close my eyes and feel him with me. It sounds crazy but knowing that even though I cannot physically feel him doesn’t mean he isn’t there. And while I will miss him more than I ever knew possible on my wedding day, I know that he will be there, watching over me with joy and pride as I marry the man who will protect me and hold me when I need to cry and just miss him. Don’t forget any of that. And while it wont make the situation any easier, it will make it better. Even if just only a little.

Post # 63
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77 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: April 2011

Oh my gosh, I can’t imagine what you must be going through.

My heart goes out to you and all of my prayers and wishes are with you and your family right now.

I am a believer in an afterlife and I believe that our loved ones never leave us but become our guardian angels and are always with us through the good and the bad. I believe that your Dad will be with you on your wedding day and that he will be with you as you walk down the aisle.

I was once told that people pass away when everything is in order in their lives – your Dad had everything, a family, happiness and a daughter that he must have been so proud of who was about to marry the man she loves. He must have been so content and happy to know that you had your life sorted like this.

I’m sending you all my best wishes right now.

Post # 64
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630 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

I am so so so sorry. I can not imagine the heart ache you are feeling.. I will pray for you today 🙂

Post # 65
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1086 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

Ohh I am so sorry. I am praying for you now.

Post # 66
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318 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: February 2011

It DOES get better.  I promise.  You will always miss him, but with time life does become normal again, not the same normal as before, but a new normal.  

My Dad died very suddenly many years ago.  When they sing “how great thou art” in church, I can still hear him singing along.  I know he will be walking me down the aisle along with my mom.

There is nothing anyone can say to help, but my thoughts and prayers are with you.  He is happy, its you and your family who have the hard part now, but it does get better.

Post # 67
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5385 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: December 2010

I am so sorry for you loss. I will keep you in my prayers.

Post # 68
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: March 2011

I recently lost my grandmother who was very excited about our wedding. It was so hard. It is so hard. I don’t know what to tell you except I am so so sorry. I know it feels like the world should stop and mourn it’s incredable loss. All I can say, is I am mourning your father for your right now too. Though the world doesn’t stop, people certainly still do care. All my love.

Post # 69
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5976 posts
Bee Keeper

I am so sorry for your loss. Your dad will for sure be looking down on you on your wedding day and he will be there in spirit. I hope that God gives you the strength to overcome your grief and be able to carry on with your wedding and have it be a happy occasion. I’m praying for you and keeping you in my thoughts.

Post # 70
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1508 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2009

I’m so sorry.  

Post # 71
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56 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: June 2011

i am so sorry for your loss. Although i don’t know you i know that your dad would have wanted you to continue on with the wedding…he just wants you to be happy (HUGS)

Post # 72
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3871 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

I’m so so sorry for your loss.  My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

Post # 73
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2390 posts
Buzzing bee

That’s so tough. Maybe you can do something to commemorate him?

 

Post # 74
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82 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: June 2011

I’m so so sorry for your loss 🙁 You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers

Post # 75
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Sugar bee

Oh no! {{{Hugs}}} I am so incredibly sorry for your loss and I cannot imagine the grief that you feel. I hope that on your wedding day you find solice in the fact that he loved you and wanted this for you and your Fiance.

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