(Closed) How can we include our students?

posted 5 years ago in Themes
Post # 3
210 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: December 2014

Congrats on your upcoming wedding!  I am posting to follow this thread!  I am an elementary special education teacher and would love to have my students have some part in my wedding also.  I’m not until December 2014 and would love to hear any and all ideas as well.

Post # 4
7339 posts
Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2014

I don’t think it’s at all appropriate to ask your classes to do group decorating/crafts. If the crafts end up at your wedding or home, it’s a bit of an abuse of your position of authority. If the kids are meant to take them home, you’re probably going to upset any kid whose home isn’t built by a happily married, loving couple. There’s single parents, step parents, gay parents…. Simple quotes about love and marriage don’t really fit every scenario you’ll find in your kids’ parents.

I think it would be appropriate to bring cupcakes and show them your wedding photos after the wedding, so long as you keep it very short. 

Post # 5
971 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2014 - Banff, Alberta

Love that idea! So sweet with the quilt. I don’t think it is inappropriate at all. You love your students and they love you, anyone who doesn’t understand that has never worked with children. I did and I loved all of my kids and would have loved a going away present or soemthing. Not every single thing they make they have to take home and it is about love in general not just parents. 

Post # 6
12247 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: May 2013

@jds12481:  My kids (preschool teacher) made a big collage of their hand prints!

Post # 7
9916 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2013

@jds12481:  I think advice makes more sense…and seriously what kind of inappropriate things would they come up with that you wouldn’t think are funny?  I don’t think asking the kids to do quotes about love and marriage is appropriate.  

I am a middle school/high school reading specialist, and all my kids cared about was 1. going to the wedding (I told them they could buy tickets for $100 each, and that they had to provide their own transportation…”Miss…that’s not right!”) and 2. pictures of the wedding.  

Post # 8
3235 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: November 2014

My students (high school age) are determined they’re coming to my wedding (and I’m not even engaged). I think it’s sweet for your students to write you messages of advice for a good marriage. 

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