(Closed) How can you choose between friends?

posted 8 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
14492 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2011

I don’t see why you can’t have them all.  I have seen more uneven bridal parties than I have even ones.  

Post # 4
80 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: July 2014


If its just for the sake of ONE person that would be left out or hurt, I would say have them all. If you’re Fiance can’t come up with another groomsman, who cares! If they are all equal friends, think of how hurt the left out one would be. Either that, or just have the bf and sister if your Fiance can narrow it down to two as well. Good luck!

Post # 5
741 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

Take a deep breath, and remember – your wedding is a party where you share the beginning of your marital life with the people closest to you. It is not a performance. Have the people who really matter. Who cares if you have eight or only two best friends, good for you for developing those relationship with people who can share this moment with you! 

My husband had two groomsmen, and I had three. These are the girls I know I can always count on and have been there for me time after time. It would be a cold day in hell before I kicked any of them out because “the numbers were not even.” That is just silly. 

Post # 6
1627 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2011

Yeah just ask them all.  I had this problem too and in the end I asked all four and DH added a person to his side.

Post # 7
7581 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: December 2010

Less is better. Pick the ones that will be the most accomodating. 

Post # 8
46 posts

without really thinking about it, I ended up picking my bestie from HS, bestie from college and bestie from the working world.  It worked out nicely.  Do what makes you happy:)

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