(Closed) How close to your inlaws will you live after you get married?

posted 4 years ago in Relationships
  • poll: How close to your inlaws will you live after you get married?
    Same house : (5 votes)
    3 %
    Same neighborhood : (11 votes)
    7 %
    Same city : (33 votes)
    22 %
    Same state/province/county : (48 votes)
    32 %
    Same country : (41 votes)
    28 %
    Different country : (11 votes)
    7 %
  • Post # 46
    Member
    9579 posts
    Buzzing Beekeeper
    • Wedding: July 2016

    15-20 minute drive. :-/  A little anxious about it (moving there this Friday!)

    Post # 47
    Member
    344 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: September 2014

    We are about 20 minutes away from my in-laws and 35 minutes from my parents. I wish it was reversed, because my parents always take care of our puppy and it would be easier, but it is nice having them all close, but not TOO close.

    Post # 48
    Member
    891 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: March 2015

    My inlaws live about 3-5 minutes away, but we don’t see them very often, maybe once a month on average. My parents live almost an hour away, and I see them more than my in-laws.

    Post # 49
    Member
    3611 posts
    Sugar bee

    We live a 1h45min-2h flight from my family and a ~1h flight from his. We see my parents way more though, because I’m more proactive about scheduling trips home.

    Post # 50
    Member
    4098 posts
    Honey bee

    southerncharm:  same country (US), different states. We live in MD, and Future In-Laws moved to NC a few months ago. They are only about a 6 hr drive away. 

    Post # 51
    Member
    2657 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: December 2016

    We’ll be in the same situation that we’re in now. Fiance and I live in the same city as both our parents – it takes us about 10 minutes to drive to my FMIL’s or to my dad’s and about 15 minutes to drive to my mum’s. As I still have young siblings (13, 7 and 4) and my Fiance has 2 young nephews (3 and 1), I don’t think we’ll be moving away from our families anytime in the future.

    Post # 52
    Member
    996 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: April 2016

    Same city as my Father-In-Law.. we can ride our bikes there. We are 3k miles from my mom 🙁

     

    Post # 53
    Member
    7905 posts
    Bumble Beekeeper

    We lived in different countries when Darling Husband and I married, but jobs brought us and them to the same state. It was unexpected, but it’s also been nice to have more visits with them. 

    Post # 54
    Member
    7040 posts
    Busy Beekeeper
    • Wedding: September 2012

    We live about a 7 hour drive (4 states away) – same as before we were married so nothing changed. We live down the street from my parents, which is also the same as before marriage. We’re actually trying to get the ILs to move here and I think they might be game! 

    Post # 55
    Member
    4252 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: August 2015

    If we buy my parents’ farm…there is a good possibility my parents could live literally 300 yards away.  I’m not sure my husband is ready for that.  😉 

    Post # 56
    Hostess
    3167 posts
    Sugar bee

    Unfortunately not nearly as far as I’d like.

    Post # 57
    Member
    404 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: September 2016

    southerncharm:  We’ll be about a 4 hour flight from his parents, and a 9 or 10 hour drive from mine (a bit under 9 from my dad and stepmom, 10 from my mom).

    The closest family for both of us is a 3 hour drive (his brother and some cousins are 3 hours southwest, and my cousins and grandparents are 3 hours north).

    Post # 58
    Member
    651 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: July 2017

    We currently live about 50 minutes away from my Future Father-In-Law and about 35 minutes away from Future Mother-In-Law. It’ll be about the same once we get married in a year, but we are moving across the country 11 months after we get married. And my in-laws have no idea.. (yet) 😛

    Post # 59
    Member
    1115 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: September 2017 - Mississauga Convention Centre

    We will be about about a 20 minute drive from our parents

    Post # 60
    Member
    13679 posts
    Honey Beekeeper
    • Wedding: November 1999

    We’re several states away from them, and I’d never move any closer.

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