(Closed) How come Men dont do Boudoir? Humph.

posted 10 years ago in Photos/Videos
Post # 3
711 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2010

Mine would never lol. As much as I think he is gorgeous – I have to say looking at him trying to “play sexy or sensual” in a photo might make me burst out laughing lol. It is definitely not something I think he or I would want – maybe a sensual photo of us together though – that might be cool.

Post # 4
6350 posts
Bee Keeper

I think Fiance would do one together but not solo.

Post # 5
11324 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: February 2011

all i can think of is the episode of seinfeld when george poses for kramer…

Post # 6
2702 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

DH had a 6 month/1 years stint as a commercial model and has some risque photos from his “modeling” days. It wouldn’t take much for him to do a “boudoir” session if it was the norm. Would he do them now? No way, I don’t see it picking up in the mainstream… And I agree with with PP… I would bust out laughing at his poses and facial expressions… 😛

Post # 7
3165 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

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@CorgiTales: bahaha me too! FH wouldn’t do it, I know that for sure.

Post # 8
3373 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

lol I would love a boudoir shoot of Fiance. He’s an athlete and I even joke about wanting to take pictures of him (not naked though) so we can remember when we’re old and wrinkly. He didn’t like the idea at all. He’s not really into his body at all and he only works out for his performance (it’s not like doing crunches for a six pack or lifting weights for arms).

Post # 9
14181 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2009

because nobody wants to see that in all its glory!

Post # 10
1551 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

There is NO way my husband would have done one.  I can just imagine the look I’d get if I ever suggested such a thing.

Post # 11
2142 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

No way- he has a very low body image and hates getting his picture taken. E-pics were difficult enough.

Post # 13
4136 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

like seinfeld taught us, a woman’s body is a work of art. a man’s body is…not that attractive.

Post # 14
1403 posts
Bumble bee

As a guy, my impression is that most women do these shoots for themselves, and that is a good thing (nothing wrong with that). 

While some guys may actually like the idea that this is a gift for them, I think it’s far from the vast majority. 

My personal opinion is that it doesn’t make for a great gift for various reasons that I won’t get into here.

I don’t think most guys would be against physically doing the shoot as much as shelling out the cash for it that they probably see as wasted and a lost opportunity for something else they really want or need.  In this case, it WOULD most likely be 100% a gift for you.  I couldn’t image them posting the images on a website or sharing them with friends as many women do with their B-pics.

If you spend any time on body building forums, some serious health nuts get prof. pics done to show off on their bodyspace pages.  I think this is about as popular as this gets with guys on average.

Also, most guys would want a female photographer, how would you feel about that?

Post # 15
7298 posts
Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2012

We’ve done a BDSM shoot before together. I don’t think he would do them alone. And we didn’t pay for it because the photographer was portfolio building and was still in art school. I don’t think he would be willing to shell out the cash for soft porn photos that he could take himself if he wanted. ^_^

Post # 16
5282 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: October 2009

@CorgiTales: same here, all I picture in my mind is this:


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