How controlling are these in-laws? (Long)

posted 5 years ago in Relationships
Post # 2
459 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: July 2016

That’s pretty fucked up, I’d take a step back for a few days and not take phone calls or open their emails. 

Post # 4
835 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: April 2015 - Family Farm

mseagles:  change you numbers. Maybe it’s  drastic but at least that way it’s  only your email that’s blown up. I’m sorry they are bullying you. Just try to breath and keep as level head as possible.

Post # 5
2969 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2014

Well, how did they exactly cross boundaries and why do they think this is something to do with you? I feel like a lot was left out of that story. If the mother backed off of the medical thing when asked to, it doesnt sound like she crossed a boundary there and i dont understand why it was included as such in your post.

If you have missed all the holidays and that is typically something that they all did together as a family, i could see them being upset by that.

You also said that your husband is quiet and passive with them. Do you think that maybe he threw you under bus a time or two in regards to something he didnt want to be confronted about by them and now its coming back to bite him in the ass? Otherwise them blaming you wouldnt make sense in the context in which you put it.


  • This reply was modified 4 years, 7 months ago by  MissJulianna.
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