(Closed) How did you ask your Bridesmaids???

posted 6 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 16
91 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: September 2017 - The Meadows

I did a book box: so it was a paper mache book that I painted and wrote “Once upon a time…” on it, since my theme is a fairytale. So inside was a headband that had a little fuzzy crown on it, plus some nail polish, bracelets and a little stretch bracelet of what they like(did Cinderella, Marvel, Wonder Woman, etc) and got a little temporary tattoo of a crown.


When Fiance wanted to ask groomsmen, he thought of designing a game. We didn’t have enough time to do it, but it was cute. The person would have to play the game and find items typically in a wedding, and at the end, it would ask them. Something a little different.

Post # 17
103 posts
Blushing bee

I sent these to my Maid/Matron of Honor and 2 bridesmaids:

This to ask my junior bridesmaid:



And this to my bridesman (goes towards a good cause):

Post # 18
937 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2017 - Mississauga Convention Centre

We asked our bridal party on our engagement party 

Post # 19
3855 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: December 2016

I said “so, I’m getting married” and they both said “what color dresses should we get? They’ve known since the Dawn of Time that they would be my BM’s. I’m a no-frills kinda girl haha.

Post # 20
1073 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2017

I just asked them all in person, easy peasy lemon squeezy.

Post # 21
523 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2016

It was Christmas time so I made each one these cute little christmas bags with hot cocoa, chocolates, a coffee cup, and mini bottles of champagne(I did starbucks via packets for my SIL who does not drink). I had chrisstmas cards made with little poems inside asking them. They loved it! My favorite was asking my SIL and Future Sister-In-Law in front of the three on Christmas morning. My other friend who I used to work with got hers as a surpise on her desk the day we left for christmas break. Everyone was really surpised when they got to the card at the end, it was so fun!

You can keep things super simple and it still be special. 

Post # 22
222 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2017

I took my bridesmaids out to dinner in small groups and surprised them with these little boxes! My two maids of honor received the same box but their card said “Will you be my maid of honor? instead.


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