(Closed) How did you ask your bridesmaids to be your bridesmaids?

posted 10 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 17
64 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: July 2014

I live in Canada and my BM’s in Jamaica so when i get there this summer i will take them to dinner  one by one and give then a cute gift asking if they would like to be my Bridesmaid or Best Man.  I already know they will say yes because one is my cousin, my best childhood friend and my Fiance niece  

Post # 18
16 posts
  • Wedding: August 2014

I sent the bridesmaids all a dozen red roses with a card that read “I’ve got my man, now I need my girls. Will you be my bridesmaid?”. My Maid/Matron of Honor got a dozen white roses with the same card (sub Maid/Matron of Honor for BM). They all felt very special because most were surprised at work

Post # 19
648 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

With words? Hehe. I won’t be doing anything other than asking them in person or over the phone.

Post # 21
263 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

@Gator:  I took my Maid/Matron of Honor out for drinks and then a week later I took my Bridesmaid or Best Man out for dinner

Post # 22
3669 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

I invited them all the luncheon and walked in with a empty wedding planning binder. Took it out while we were waiting for our food and said ” It sure is to bad that I don’t have any bridesmaids to fill this up with ideas” they all looked at me and I said “If I did have bridesmaids though I would probably ask them to do a luncheon with me to discuss planning”. They all got the hint and started freaking out and hugging me. Told them I couldn’t imagaine the day without them. It was simple and surprising and led to a lot of laughter and a couple of watery eyes. 

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