(Closed) how did you ask your flower girls to be in your wedding?

posted 9 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2010

I found these cute cookies that had a flower girl poem on them and I mailed them to them! They were cute and delicious! I’ll see if I can find the website I got them from! I also sent them a children’s flower girl book about the importance of being a flower girl from B&N.

Post # 4
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: April 2009

Our flowergirl is so little that we asked her mother! I could have mailed her something cute but I don’t think she would have got the sentiment behind it.

Post # 5
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2010

I think standard etiquette for Flower Girl and Ring Bearer is to ask their parents anyways because they will be the ones with the responsibilty in helping them!

Post # 7
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Newbee
  • Wedding: November 2009

My flower girl is my FH goddaughter and my ringbearer is my godson. My godson’s mother is my Maid/Matron of Honor. I asked my Maid/Matron of Honor, who in turn asked her son (and explained what a ringbearer was! lol) I called my flowergirl’s mother and asked her, while I was on the phone she asked her daughter – who jumped off her chair in joy.

Post # 8
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2010

One of our Flowergirls is my goddaughter too! and our other flowergirl is my FH first neice! We wont have a ringbearer since there aren’t any young boys in either of our families!

Post # 9
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2016

My niece and nephew (twins) were actually there on our family vacation the weekend that I got engaged, and they asked ME if they could be my flower girl and ring bearer. They’re the little loves of my life, though, so they were the obvious choices. 🙂 I still plan on giving them some sort of little gift before the wedding to honor their participation, though. 🙂

Post # 10
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2010

Aww Driftslikesmoke! Thats is so cute!! Twin ringbearer and flowergirl!! I love it!!!

Post # 11
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Buzzing bee

I will probably take my Flower Girl out for lunch and ask her then.  I’ll ask her mom first, though.

Post # 13
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2009

My Flower Girl is my 2 year old niece who will be 2.75 going on 35 by the wedding date;)  She’s a little young to really understand it, so I’ve mostly talked to my sister about it.  She is v. excited about the wedding though,  I think b/c she understands that there will be cake (she wished us Happy Birthday when we got engaged).  She also adores my Fiance whom, she recently informed my sister, she will be marrying at her wedding to be held "after she goes to the office".  But I have asked her about it a few times while talking to her on the phone.  Currently she’s telling me that she’ll think about it and let me know 😀 .  She is just too adorable for words!

 sarsk624, such a cute idea!  I might even steal it if you don’t mind:)

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